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Should I approach this girl, what do I say?

Gyneco

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Hello all, I'm 16 and a Junior in high school, I'm good looking but really shy, I have no confidence but no game, I even blush when I talk to randoms girls :down:

But I'm in a small conflict with a girl and I dont know what to do at the moment

Here I will list some of the situation:

One time, I was chilling by myself by the classroom door waiting for the bell to ring, and she walks up to me like if she was going to say something

I tried saying "hi" and tried making eye contact, but she looked down and then moved her eyes in a sweeping motion across the floor.

2. I was in lunch before and I caught her "spying" one me, I looked backed and stared back we locked eyes at each other for a good couple seconds.

3. Before class ends, I usually stand by the door waiting by the bell. She would always try to stand next to me, and would play with her phone and fix her hair, usually it was just the two of us standing, I never grew the balls to say anything there.

4. I was talking to one of buds, and she bumps my elbow on purpose , at the time the only line I can throw was "Srry, I didn't notice you there"

The problem here is, I'm not sure if it was a good idea but I tried to contact her over Facebook, she ignored me and the friend request (which was never denied) I know she ignored it because she was updating here stats for the time being, I honestly think she thinks I am shy and socially awkward or something, I'm new to the school as well and I wasn't to comfortable talking to anyone :-/

Today was the first day of school again, I walked to my crew and tehy greeted me like Alpha male, I saw her "observing me" we made a good couple second stare, I really want to approach her.:mad: what kind of conversation should I carry out if I approach her? I feel like she thinks I am socially awkward or something


Any help would be useful, they told me before I had to prove I grew some cojones.:confused:
 

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Gyneco

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BPH said:
Chalk it up as a loss and move on.

Approach more girls and get rejected until you find something that works for you. This is how you build confidence and get good with girls. You won't get good by endlessly pursuing one single woman.
As much as I'd agree the words you say are true, the problem is, I don't see myself dating others, this was like love at first sight yo. A majority of the girls in my school are unattractive, I do practice on some unattractive girls but I'll go as far as to get a number.

Are you sure I can't do anything? I really like this one, i've never really had a girlfriend I mean I dated back in middle school but that was just kid stuff.
 

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Dude you need to grow some balls. I can guarantee she's not half as good as you think she is. What BPH said is true, you know it's true but you don't want to admit it to yourself. We see this case all the time, it's a bit ridiculous.
Just know: This girl is not special
 

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Yea, thanks for the advice guys, I'll just direct approach other women. :)
 

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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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