Hello all, I'm 16 and a Junior in high school, I'm good looking but really shy, I have no confidence but no game, I even blush when I talk to randoms girls
But I'm in a small conflict with a girl and I dont know what to do at the moment
Here I will list some of the situation:
One time, I was chilling by myself by the classroom door waiting for the bell to ring, and she walks up to me like if she was going to say something
I tried saying "hi" and tried making eye contact, but she looked down and then moved her eyes in a sweeping motion across the floor.
2. I was in lunch before and I caught her "spying" one me, I looked backed and stared back we locked eyes at each other for a good couple seconds.
3. Before class ends, I usually stand by the door waiting by the bell. She would always try to stand next to me, and would play with her phone and fix her hair, usually it was just the two of us standing, I never grew the balls to say anything there.
4. I was talking to one of buds, and she bumps my elbow on purpose , at the time the only line I can throw was "Srry, I didn't notice you there"
The problem here is, I'm not sure if it was a good idea but I tried to contact her over Facebook, she ignored me and the friend request (which was never denied) I know she ignored it because she was updating here stats for the time being, I honestly think she thinks I am shy and socially awkward or something, I'm new to the school as well and I wasn't to comfortable talking to anyone :-/
Today was the first day of school again, I walked to my crew and tehy greeted me like Alpha male, I saw her "observing me" we made a good couple second stare, I really want to approach her.
what kind of conversation should I carry out if I approach her? I feel like she thinks I am socially awkward or something
Any help would be useful, they told me before I had to prove I grew some cojones.
But I'm in a small conflict with a girl and I dont know what to do at the moment
Here I will list some of the situation:
One time, I was chilling by myself by the classroom door waiting for the bell to ring, and she walks up to me like if she was going to say something
I tried saying "hi" and tried making eye contact, but she looked down and then moved her eyes in a sweeping motion across the floor.
2. I was in lunch before and I caught her "spying" one me, I looked backed and stared back we locked eyes at each other for a good couple seconds.
3. Before class ends, I usually stand by the door waiting by the bell. She would always try to stand next to me, and would play with her phone and fix her hair, usually it was just the two of us standing, I never grew the balls to say anything there.
4. I was talking to one of buds, and she bumps my elbow on purpose , at the time the only line I can throw was "Srry, I didn't notice you there"
The problem here is, I'm not sure if it was a good idea but I tried to contact her over Facebook, she ignored me and the friend request (which was never denied) I know she ignored it because she was updating here stats for the time being, I honestly think she thinks I am shy and socially awkward or something, I'm new to the school as well and I wasn't to comfortable talking to anyone :-/
Today was the first day of school again, I walked to my crew and tehy greeted me like Alpha male, I saw her "observing me" we made a good couple second stare, I really want to approach her.
Any help would be useful, they told me before I had to prove I grew some cojones.