Is this that same guy who used to come on here back in the day? I can't remember his name but he was a black guy who constantly moaned about sh1t too. Listen. Be a man. Be who YOU are 100%. Being yourself means nothing if you aren't being your best self.
What are you doing to make yourself better? What are you doing to develop your confidence? What are you doing in your life as far as education and finances? What are you doing to achieve your goals? Sort that out first.
Figure out what YOUR problem is with women, fix all the stuff on your side. Get in shape, or at least dress the way you want to dress, get your confidence up (how? practice). Fix your social issues. If you have anxiety or depression sort it out, remember that all of those "feelings" are temporary and keep moving forward.
The last thing you need to be concerned with is your race. If you are trying to date white women, understand this. Some will be open to it, some won't. Some will like you for you are as your best self, some will see a stereotype and want to try it. Some will see a stereotype and want to avoid it. YOU CANNOT CONTROL THAT. Accept it. Suprisingly, that goes for ALL women. Some black women only like thugs, some don't.
Learn about the 80/20 rule. It applies to everything in life. 80% of the pvssy you get will come from 20% of the women you approach. That means you have to try and fail.
Pick your target and hunt in that area. What type of woman do YOU want. Where do those women go? What do those women do? Are you in those places?
Are you social? Do you know how to talk to people? Read How to Win Friends and Influence People. Read the book of pook. Stop having a Racial Pity Party. It's unattractive in a man and you are probably putting out a vibe with people you meet. Enjoy who you are as a black man, as a man, as a human and as an American (assuming you are american).
Lastly. Take some advice from this
weirdo.
Good Luck.