Should I abandon this plate or am I just being needy/butthurt

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Back story:

I matched with this girl in medical school, I can't get a date out of her but she suggests going to the beach for a weekend. I don't meet this girl prior because she said she was busy with exams, but the beach trip still happens and I get sex. She also tried doing school work at the beach and I had to tell her to cut that **** off cause it's a vacation lol. It took a couple of tries because she would throw the Jesus/Sin shield at me, but I worked my magic. I meet up with her two more times afterwards and every time I get her close to taking her clothes off she says she doesn't want to sin blah blah blah, but I let it slide.

She has another round of exams and becomes more distant (not as routinely responsive to snaps or texts) and I start to back off and this weekend I ask her if she wants to do something after she is finished with exams and she says she doesn't know because she's overwhelmed and stressing out. I say okay cool and then she just randomly starts dumping walls of texts on me about how stressed she is and how she is losing friends/she doesn't know what to do blah blah. I tell her my insight and I decide to go ghost for a few days. I decided to end the ghost last night by just snapping her a pic of a beer at a bar and she responds and she responded to some my snap story of my gym morning workout, so idk if I'm just getting played or not. I know t at I'm never going to be a priority because of Medical School and Jesus lol. In addition, she seem like she has some inner demons she has to work on.

 

[EyeBRollin]

OP, are you trolling us?

This broad doesn’t like you. Pick a new target.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

OP, are you trolling us?

This broad doesn’t like you. Pick a new target.

so abandon? Does a girl need to offer to be my sex slave to be interested lol?

 

[Lookatu]

but the beach trip still happens and I get sex.
So did you have sex with her?

I meet up with her two more times afterwards and every time I get her close to taking her clothes off she says she doesn't want to sin blah blah blah, but I let it slide.
So if you did have sex already, now she's witholding it? If you've already had sex and she witholds it, that is a power move or she no longer desires you. Realize it and move onto someone that will.

I start to back off and this weekend I ask her if she wants to do something after she is finished with exams and she says she doesn't know because she's overwhelmed and stressing out.
You should've gotten the hint the first time and not reached out to her. You should've waited for her to reach out to you when she's of the better mind and less stressed.

I tell her my insight and I decide to go ghost for a few days.
You just listened to all her problems and became her emotional tampon. This is a no no and beta orbiter behavior.

I decided to end the ghost last night by just snapping her a pic of a beer at a bar and she responds and she responded to some my snap story of my gym morning workout, so idk if I'm just getting played or not.
You're looking to play games with her in hoping to get back at her or getting her attention. This isn't healthy. You should be moving on and not worrying about her or what she thinks.

I know that I'm never going to be a priority because of Medical School and Jesus lol.
Exactly. If you are the type that seeks more attention from her. She's not going to be able to offer it. Accept it and move on.

My comments in bold above.

 

[Atom Smasher]

When they play the religion card, jump ship. She will always have that reluctance and it’s best not to mess with a person’s convictions.

 

[Lookatu]

Now all of a sudden, she's 'uncertain' about things and is talking about 'God's plan' and 'having faith.'

What's that all about?

Anytime a girl mentions religion in a way that interferes with your relationship moving forward with her in any way is never good. It never ends well. Just a heads up...

As Atom said, jump ship...

When they play the religion card, jump ship. She will always have that reluctance and it’s best not to mess with a person’s convictions.

 

[Barrister]

Back story:

I matched with this girl in medical school, I can't get a date out of her but she suggests going to the beach for a weekend. I don't meet this girl prior because she said she was busy with exams, but the beach trip still happens and I get sex. She also tried doing school work at the beach and I had to tell her to cut that **** off cause it's a vacation lol. It took a couple of tries because she would throw the Jesus/Sin shield at me, but I worked my magic. I meet up with her two more times afterwards and every time I get her close to taking her clothes off she says she doesn't want to sin blah blah blah, but I let it slide.

She has another round of exams and becomes more distant (not as routinely responsive to snaps or texts) and I start to back off and this weekend I ask her if she wants to do something after she is finished with exams and she says she doesn't know because she's overwhelmed and stressing out. I say okay cool and then she just randomly starts dumping walls of texts on me about how stressed she is and how she is losing friends/she doesn't know what to do blah blah. I tell her my insight and I decide to go ghost for a few days. I decided to end the ghost last night by just snapping her a pic of a beer at a bar and she responds and she responded to some my snap story of my gym morning workout, so idk if I'm just getting played or not. I know t at I'm never going to be a priority because of Medical School and Jesus lol. In addition, she seem like she has some inner demons she has to work on.

I guess I am confused -- you did or you didn't already sleep with her? If you didn't, then you can't even call this chick a plate. She is just someone who isn't attracted to you. Even if you had sex once, sounds like she is regretting doing it with you. My guess is the religion angle is simply an excuse not to sleep with you. Next.