Ok here is what happened to my friend. He is very AFC but he's willing to listen to my tips (I didn't tell him about this site). He never kissed a girl, the most he did was holding hands... he has no game. Anyway, he knows this girl since summer. He's been dating her since about 3 months now... 2 weeks ago, he asked her to be his girlfriend but she said no because she is very busy and she doesn't have the time to have a boyfriend right now (the common excuse).. He is incredibly in love with her... he gets annoying sometimes. But since she said no to being his girlfriend, he didn't talk to her for 2 weeks. Now he's missing her like crazy and he's telling me how much he wants to see her one last time and everything. But I also heard from the girl's friends that SHE misses HIM like crazy too. So now he doesn't know what to do, should he see her or not? Remember that he misses her like hell too. He doesn't know what to do... And even me, I have no clue what he should do... I say he should go see her, without saying a word, then give her the biggest hug ever, and after the hug, take her head and kiss her on the lips. He has nothing to lose... but any GOOD DJ'S having some tips or anything? Remember that he never kissed a girl or whatever..
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Should he go see her or not?
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