I did a search for this and didn't come up with much so I figured I'd make a new thread.
What do you feel the limits are for your girlfriend going out with her friends and dancing? What kind of dancing should she be able to do with other guys, if any? Grinding? Dancing that requires touching? Dancing without touching? How close to each other? If it's just about dancing and not about sex at all why not just dance with other girl friends?
Assume you're not there with her.
I personally would rather my gf didn't dance with other guys at all... and i don't even know if she does. She's going out tonight with like 3 girls for her friend's bday, and i just started wondering. I don't think it's anything to do with insecurity or wanting to control her because i know she's insane about me and isn't going to be dumb. I just know how guys are. Even though i prefer no dancing with other guys at all that might be going too far, so what are the limits?
Probably won't say anything about this at all to her because it's not really a big deal cause at least i know she's not grinding on some dude's crotch, but i'm just wondering what the consensus around here is.
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On a side note...
I hate the feeling that AFCs have given me... that if i say anything that remotely can be construed as controlling to my gf society now shoves it into that category even when I feel that sometimes a man has to be able to say "hey that's not right and i don't want you doing that" without it being "i'm a jealous mess who can't control my emotions!"
What do you feel the limits are for your girlfriend going out with her friends and dancing? What kind of dancing should she be able to do with other guys, if any? Grinding? Dancing that requires touching? Dancing without touching? How close to each other? If it's just about dancing and not about sex at all why not just dance with other girl friends?
Assume you're not there with her.
I personally would rather my gf didn't dance with other guys at all... and i don't even know if she does. She's going out tonight with like 3 girls for her friend's bday, and i just started wondering. I don't think it's anything to do with insecurity or wanting to control her because i know she's insane about me and isn't going to be dumb. I just know how guys are. Even though i prefer no dancing with other guys at all that might be going too far, so what are the limits?
Probably won't say anything about this at all to her because it's not really a big deal cause at least i know she's not grinding on some dude's crotch, but i'm just wondering what the consensus around here is.
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On a side note...
I hate the feeling that AFCs have given me... that if i say anything that remotely can be construed as controlling to my gf society now shoves it into that category even when I feel that sometimes a man has to be able to say "hey that's not right and i don't want you doing that" without it being "i'm a jealous mess who can't control my emotions!"