"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I went to the mall with some girls who wanted to "pimp me out" so they took me to Hollister and I started flirting with the attended HB8.5. I could feel my heart beating out of my chest but I took a deepbreathe and used a line that I saw here.

J-unit- If you were to see me in this shirt would you want rip it off of me.

Clerk- Why?

J-unit- To reveal my body.

Clerk- ::confused:: no, sorry

J-unit- ::awkard goodbye:: Leave store. :crackup:

What a rush, failure feels a whole hell of a lot better then not trying.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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haha

Its good that you got the balls to pull something like that.
 
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Maybe that was a little quick? Btw, that was a stupid line, imo.
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I didn't care if I got her, I'm just trying to lose my fear of approaches by doing.
 
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Originally posted by J-Unit
I didn't care if I got her, I'm just trying to lose my fear of approaches by doing.
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lawl...

What a crappy line.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Congratulations

You have done something that three quarters of the people here never have, got some field experience.

However, the method that you went about it was a little dubious, you should have come out with less of a ****y line. That kind of line is very hard to use successfully and if you say it, you have to say it in a very very playful way, as in, i know its a crap pick up line, but i dont care, i have good enough game to use it. Plus if you were there with girls, it depends on what their reaction to a comment like that would be.

Better would have been something, where you are judging her, commenting on something that she is/was doing. That way the focus is on her. There are lots of good examples on here, the best ones being the c + f ones.

CONGRATULATIONS though.
 
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Hey J-Unit,

That was hilarious. Honestly, good job man, thats a damn good story to tell your buds.
 
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That was hilarious. Honestly, good job man, thats a damn good story to tell your buds.
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I love screwing up and telling my friends about it, I dream about being a stand-up comedian.

And for everyone who made fun of my line, could you at least give me some constructive critisism, cause I'm going on David D's newsletter and balls alone.;)
 
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Yeah, how do you deal with being shot-down? I'm about to ask a girl out, I've asked her to do stuff, but not official "dates" and going out. What do you do if they say "no." It's got to be awkward. Is there a way with dealing with this, or do you just say "at least you had the balls to do it."
 
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Originally posted by Maeisgood
Yeah, how do you deal with being shot-down? I'm about to ask a girl out, I've asked her to do stuff, but not official "dates" and going out. What do you do if they say "no." It's got to be awkward. Is there a way with dealing with this, or do you just say "at least you had the balls to do it."
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why the hell are you worrying about the negative outcome??? why are you even THINKING about it? why are you still AFRAID?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah, how do you deal with being shot-down?
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I recomend crying about it, but you do what you like. :p

but not official "dates" and going out.
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I recomend that you get your official date papers in the mail at www.officialdate.com

But seriously don't worry about getting shot-down it will be alright.;)
 
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