“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I went to the mall with some girls who wanted to "pimp me out" so they took me to Hollister and I started flirting with the attended HB8.5. I could feel my heart beating out of my chest but I took a deepbreathe and used a line that I saw here.

J-unit- If you were to see me in this shirt would you want rip it off of me.

Clerk- Why?

J-unit- To reveal my body.

Clerk- ::confused:: no, sorry

J-unit- ::awkard goodbye:: Leave store. :crackup:

What a rush, failure feels a whole hell of a lot better then not trying.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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haha

Its good that you got the balls to pull something like that.
 
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Maybe that was a little quick? Btw, that was a stupid line, imo.
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I didn't care if I got her, I'm just trying to lose my fear of approaches by doing.
 
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Originally posted by J-Unit
I didn't care if I got her, I'm just trying to lose my fear of approaches by doing.
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lawl...

What a crappy line.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Congratulations

You have done something that three quarters of the people here never have, got some field experience.

However, the method that you went about it was a little dubious, you should have come out with less of a ****y line. That kind of line is very hard to use successfully and if you say it, you have to say it in a very very playful way, as in, i know its a crap pick up line, but i dont care, i have good enough game to use it. Plus if you were there with girls, it depends on what their reaction to a comment like that would be.

Better would have been something, where you are judging her, commenting on something that she is/was doing. That way the focus is on her. There are lots of good examples on here, the best ones being the c + f ones.

CONGRATULATIONS though.
 
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Hey J-Unit,

That was hilarious. Honestly, good job man, thats a damn good story to tell your buds.
 
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That was hilarious. Honestly, good job man, thats a damn good story to tell your buds.
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I love screwing up and telling my friends about it, I dream about being a stand-up comedian.

And for everyone who made fun of my line, could you at least give me some constructive critisism, cause I'm going on David D's newsletter and balls alone.;)
 
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Yeah, how do you deal with being shot-down? I'm about to ask a girl out, I've asked her to do stuff, but not official "dates" and going out. What do you do if they say "no." It's got to be awkward. Is there a way with dealing with this, or do you just say "at least you had the balls to do it."
 
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Originally posted by Maeisgood
Yeah, how do you deal with being shot-down? I'm about to ask a girl out, I've asked her to do stuff, but not official "dates" and going out. What do you do if they say "no." It's got to be awkward. Is there a way with dealing with this, or do you just say "at least you had the balls to do it."
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why the hell are you worrying about the negative outcome??? why are you even THINKING about it? why are you still AFRAID?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah, how do you deal with being shot-down?
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I recomend crying about it, but you do what you like. :p

but not official "dates" and going out.
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I recomend that you get your official date papers in the mail at www.officialdate.com

But seriously don't worry about getting shot-down it will be alright.;)
 
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