"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Short & Sweet but something you should always remember...
- Thread starter Bizzle13
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Bizzle13 said:
As much as I would love to agree full heartily with both....Im hesistant. In my opinion the overwhelming majority of men are beta chumps who are as bad as women and care only for themselves. I subscribe to a different philosophy:nismo-4 said:
"Trust yourself before you trust others"
Not in some weird antisocial way, but I find that if I need something done or help from a friend....Im better off taking care of it on my own. Whether its a lack of skills, lack of commitment, or bullsh1t excuses and can never come....its tough to find good male friends to rely on. So when you do find one.....respect him. Dont be one of those guys who loses a great friend for a sh1tty reason.........like a woman.
The basis of what I'm saying is men, real men, understand how respect works but women will take a mile without even taking an inch, if you know what I mean
don't get played, you don't always have to be an ******* but don't get played."She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I do agree that a lot of men today are weak faggots who think and act like woman. Just look at some of the posters on this site. And this is supposed to be a place with like-minded men. The faggots in the real would put your average SoSuave beta to shame.TheException said:
Most male friendships today end over a woman or over jealousy (if not money) --> Jealousy over women. Its a disgrace.
Just looking back at my own life.. no male friend was ever jealous of me until I started f*cking hotter girls than him. When I got my car in high school.. no problem. Went to a better college.. no problem. Beat them in video games every time.. no problem. Better job making more money.. no problem. Started pulling hotter girls than him.. BIG PROBLEM.
My friends have had similar experiences.
I have one DJ friend who is actually a better plate spinner than myself and probably gets laid more than any man I know. I love this guy. I remember one night we were out and he invited another friend of his. Guess what his "friend" did? --> Start sh!tting on his plate spinning ability and telling ME how he mostly f*cks ugly girls.
This world is filled with jealous castrated beta b!tches.