"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Short & Sweet but something you should always remember...

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Help a man and he'll remember you next time you're in trouble.
Help a woman and she'll remember you next time she's in trouble.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bizzle13 said:
Help a man and he'll remember you next time you're in trouble.
nismo-4 said:
Trust a man before you trust a woman.
As much as I would love to agree full heartily with both....Im hesistant. In my opinion the overwhelming majority of men are beta chumps who are as bad as women and care only for themselves. I subscribe to a different philosophy:

"Trust yourself before you trust others"

Not in some weird antisocial way, but I find that if I need something done or help from a friend....Im better off taking care of it on my own. Whether its a lack of skills, lack of commitment, or bullsh1t excuses and can never come....its tough to find good male friends to rely on. So when you do find one.....respect him. Dont be one of those guys who loses a great friend for a sh1tty reason.........like a woman.
 

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Of course there's gonna be exceptions to the rule but among respectable men there is that unwritten code to repay those who've helped you, not as a debt but as a matter of respect. I grew up in an area where it was every man for himself and people rarely helped one and another. But the most respected men were the ones who believed in respect.

The basis of what I'm saying is men, real men, understand how respect works but women will take a mile without even taking an inch, if you know what I mean ;) don't get played, you don't always have to be an ******* but don't get played.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Keep forgetting swear words get started out, the word was @sshole.
 

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TheException said:
As much as I would love to agree full heartily with both....Im hesistant. In my opinion the overwhelming majority of men are beta chumps who are as bad as women and care only for themselves. I subscribe to a different philosophy:

"Trust yourself before you trust others"

Not in some weird antisocial way, but I find that if I need something done or help from a friend....Im better off taking care of it on my own. Whether its a lack of skills, lack of commitment, or bullsh1t excuses and can never come....its tough to find good male friends to rely on. So when you do find one.....respect him. Dont be one of those guys who loses a great friend for a sh1tty reason.........like a woman.
I do agree that a lot of men today are weak faggots who think and act like woman. Just look at some of the posters on this site. And this is supposed to be a place with like-minded men. The faggots in the real would put your average SoSuave beta to shame.

Most male friendships today end over a woman or over jealousy (if not money) --> Jealousy over women. Its a disgrace.

Just looking back at my own life.. no male friend was ever jealous of me until I started f*cking hotter girls than him. When I got my car in high school.. no problem. Went to a better college.. no problem. Beat them in video games every time.. no problem. Better job making more money.. no problem. Started pulling hotter girls than him.. BIG PROBLEM. :mad:

My friends have had similar experiences.

I have one DJ friend who is actually a better plate spinner than myself and probably gets laid more than any man I know. I love this guy. I remember one night we were out and he invited another friend of his. Guess what his "friend" did? --> Start sh!tting on his plate spinning ability and telling ME how he mostly f*cks ugly girls.

This world is filled with jealous castrated beta b!tches.
 

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Yeah, I still have jealous moments but it's more to do with people bettering themselves while I'm struggling. We all struggle and we all get a little jealous of something but I use my jealousy as an incentive and to better myself, not bring others down. It's great to have friends who are better than you at certain things, makes you up your game.
 
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