"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Short Lifting Questions

EpsilonArmati

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Hey guys, a couple of questions:

1) My friend back in school tells me that I should only train certain groups of muscles at a time, like shoulders with something one day and biceps with something another. Is this really true? Some websites say that I should train every muscle in my body at least once. Can anyone clear this up?

2) Do you do it until it starts to ache, or do you just do enough for the predesignated number of reps/sets that you've decided in the preplanned journal?

Thanks in advance.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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NEWBIE101

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1) Probably the best thing to do would be a split routine, training each muscle once per week. You could do a full body routine twice per week if you would like though.

2) No. Pain during exercise is not a good thing. Fatigue is fine though.
 

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Muscle pain good. Joint pain bad. Workout with the most intensity you can stand.
 

xyzzy

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(1) Yes, you should train every muscle, but not all in one day. Do it in groups like your friend says but space it out so you have trained every muscle group throughout the week.

(2) It was well said on testosterone.net, that you should work with intensity, but not to the point that you have to be carried out on a stretcher after your workout! It should be a lot of work but feel invigorating. The muscle really shouldn't "ache" doing the exercise (if done properly, that will come 1-2 days later).

Theoretically if you keep your schedule in (1) that part of the body should be healed from the microtrauma by the time the next week comes.
 

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heres a split for ya -


monday (chest, shoulders, triceps) -

barbell bench 3x8
dips 2x10
military press 3x8
bent over raises (rear deltoids) 3x8

wed (back, biceps) -

pull ups 4xmax
deadlift 3x4
bent over rows 3x8

fri (legs)

5x8 squats
lunges
5xmax calf raises
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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