"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Short Lifting Questions

EpsilonArmati

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Hey guys, a couple of questions:

1) My friend back in school tells me that I should only train certain groups of muscles at a time, like shoulders with something one day and biceps with something another. Is this really true? Some websites say that I should train every muscle in my body at least once. Can anyone clear this up?

2) Do you do it until it starts to ache, or do you just do enough for the predesignated number of reps/sets that you've decided in the preplanned journal?

Thanks in advance.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NEWBIE101

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1) Probably the best thing to do would be a split routine, training each muscle once per week. You could do a full body routine twice per week if you would like though.

2) No. Pain during exercise is not a good thing. Fatigue is fine though.
 

Devestator

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Muscle pain good. Joint pain bad. Workout with the most intensity you can stand.
 

xyzzy

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(1) Yes, you should train every muscle, but not all in one day. Do it in groups like your friend says but space it out so you have trained every muscle group throughout the week.

(2) It was well said on testosterone.net, that you should work with intensity, but not to the point that you have to be carried out on a stretcher after your workout! It should be a lot of work but feel invigorating. The muscle really shouldn't "ache" doing the exercise (if done properly, that will come 1-2 days later).

Theoretically if you keep your schedule in (1) that part of the body should be healed from the microtrauma by the time the next week comes.
 

California Love

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heres a split for ya -


monday (chest, shoulders, triceps) -

barbell bench 3x8
dips 2x10
military press 3x8
bent over raises (rear deltoids) 3x8

wed (back, biceps) -

pull ups 4xmax
deadlift 3x4
bent over rows 3x8

fri (legs)

5x8 squats
lunges
5xmax calf raises
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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