"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Short Field Report

moneyisking

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Just want to report short stuff that I went through today. Well, not much to tell, just being me and talking to some girls here and there, but I always come up with brilliant things to say after the incident. Damn it, I know I will DJ up one day as I am keep trying.

I was taking elevator from 1st floor to 2nd floor, and this HB8 was in there with me. I was definitely going to start short convo, b/c I know I have to start convo with as many girls I can, and I was not going to miss this chance. But she suddenly opened up first saying

Her: Seriously? You're taking elevator from 1st floor to 2nd floor?
Me: Ya, you guessed it right.
Her; Omg, You're going to get fat.
Me: Pointing at my abs, Well as you can see, I already got a hot set of abs so I don't need to worry. (I am pretty hot)
Her: No, you're going to get fat.
Me: No, I hit the gym everyday.
Her: Ya, but you smoke (she saw me I guess) and you take elevator. I am going to 5th floor.
Me: (elevator hits 2nd floor) Pff, No, you are going to get fat for taking elevator to 5th floor.
Her: Lol whatever!
Me: You better start hitting the stairs more now.

That was the end, and I feel like I have A LOT of developments to do.

1. When she said "I saw you smoking", I should have said "Oh, so you were checking/stalking me then."
2. I noticed my mind just being in a some kind of swirl. I was a bit nervous I think. I didn't keep perfect eye contact b/c it was so sudden. No excuse though!
3. I should have said something like "I know you will be in the elevator now all the time now that you know that I am too lazy to take the stairs."
4. I was not sexual here at all. Somehow, need to get more sexual.
5. I didn't ask her name, number. What a waste.

So, that was a brief field report. I take the path of natural. I do not pack charts of what to dos, lines, or techniques. I am going to embrace my nature as a sexual man baby. Well, drop in any advices if you will. I kind of feel stupid after this happened not b/c what I said but b/c of my mind and attitude at that moment. I got to get that confidence down. Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scars

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You were in a tough situation being so time limited. At least you didn't crash and burn, but she did open YOU which showed she was obviously interested. I would of tried to frame the conversation into something that bought you more time, perhaps challenging her to a "race". One of you on the elevator and the other taking the stairs. It seems childish but girls eat up **** like that, plus it'd leave an extremely interesting first impression.

In any case good job. At least you didn't trip up and you actually said something comprehendable, which is more than I can say for some of the other guys here.

Good luck on further "reports".

-Scars
 

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Scars said:
You were in a tough situation being so time limited. At least you didn't crash and burn, but she did open YOU which showed she was obviously interested. I would of tried to frame the conversation into something that bought you more time, perhaps challenging her to a "race". One of you on the elevator and the other taking the stairs. It seems childish but girls eat up **** like that, plus it'd leave an extremely interesting first impression.

In any case good job. At least you didn't trip up and you actually said something comprehendable, which is more than I can say for some of the other guys here.

Good luck on further "reports".

-Scars
oooh nice comment about the race. haha, i doubt that can actually happen, but I never tried so I will keep my heads up for an opportunity. BTW, seems like I did something wrong for naming this thread "report"? I mean, it's a report isn't it? I don't know.
 
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