"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Short Field Report

moneyisking

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Just want to report short stuff that I went through today. Well, not much to tell, just being me and talking to some girls here and there, but I always come up with brilliant things to say after the incident. Damn it, I know I will DJ up one day as I am keep trying.

I was taking elevator from 1st floor to 2nd floor, and this HB8 was in there with me. I was definitely going to start short convo, b/c I know I have to start convo with as many girls I can, and I was not going to miss this chance. But she suddenly opened up first saying

Her: Seriously? You're taking elevator from 1st floor to 2nd floor?
Me: Ya, you guessed it right.
Her; Omg, You're going to get fat.
Me: Pointing at my abs, Well as you can see, I already got a hot set of abs so I don't need to worry. (I am pretty hot)
Her: No, you're going to get fat.
Me: No, I hit the gym everyday.
Her: Ya, but you smoke (she saw me I guess) and you take elevator. I am going to 5th floor.
Me: (elevator hits 2nd floor) Pff, No, you are going to get fat for taking elevator to 5th floor.
Her: Lol whatever!
Me: You better start hitting the stairs more now.

That was the end, and I feel like I have A LOT of developments to do.

1. When she said "I saw you smoking", I should have said "Oh, so you were checking/stalking me then."
2. I noticed my mind just being in a some kind of swirl. I was a bit nervous I think. I didn't keep perfect eye contact b/c it was so sudden. No excuse though!
3. I should have said something like "I know you will be in the elevator now all the time now that you know that I am too lazy to take the stairs."
4. I was not sexual here at all. Somehow, need to get more sexual.
5. I didn't ask her name, number. What a waste.

So, that was a brief field report. I take the path of natural. I do not pack charts of what to dos, lines, or techniques. I am going to embrace my nature as a sexual man baby. Well, drop in any advices if you will. I kind of feel stupid after this happened not b/c what I said but b/c of my mind and attitude at that moment. I got to get that confidence down. Thanks!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scars

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You were in a tough situation being so time limited. At least you didn't crash and burn, but she did open YOU which showed she was obviously interested. I would of tried to frame the conversation into something that bought you more time, perhaps challenging her to a "race". One of you on the elevator and the other taking the stairs. It seems childish but girls eat up **** like that, plus it'd leave an extremely interesting first impression.

In any case good job. At least you didn't trip up and you actually said something comprehendable, which is more than I can say for some of the other guys here.

Good luck on further "reports".

-Scars
 

moneyisking

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Scars said:
You were in a tough situation being so time limited. At least you didn't crash and burn, but she did open YOU which showed she was obviously interested. I would of tried to frame the conversation into something that bought you more time, perhaps challenging her to a "race". One of you on the elevator and the other taking the stairs. It seems childish but girls eat up **** like that, plus it'd leave an extremely interesting first impression.

In any case good job. At least you didn't trip up and you actually said something comprehendable, which is more than I can say for some of the other guys here.

Good luck on further "reports".

-Scars
oooh nice comment about the race. haha, i doubt that can actually happen, but I never tried so I will keep my heads up for an opportunity. BTW, seems like I did something wrong for naming this thread "report"? I mean, it's a report isn't it? I don't know.
 
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