"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shoes with Brown Plaid Blazer

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warrior1 said:
well i ordered it the Kenneth Cole Shoes but i will return it back if i don't liek it. I am assuming you would suggest AE shoes right? But arent those Kenneth Cole shoes around 180 dollars retail? That isn't really cheap according to me.

I see those AE shoes that cost around 300 or so and thats definitely a lot. Would you say its terrible to have Kenneth Cole shoes? I know people hate it because it doesnt last long.
I don't like them because they look plasticky, and for $180 you shouldn't be putting plastic on your feet. They don't look terrible and definitely mesh with the look you're going for, but I wouldn't buy them in the future.

I wouldn't buy AE shoes for going out... they're hard to wear casually. If you can figure out a way to do that, though, and if you pick them up off eBay for cheap, you can be a sartorial god. I think the Dryden is a good shoe to wear with slim one-wash/dry jeans, for example.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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