"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Shoes to go with black pants
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
naoi deag se deag
Senior Don Juan
If they are dress pants, get a pair of white dress shoes. Check out this month's issue of GQ. The look disgusted me at first but it's kind of grown on me enough to want a pair.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
But really what kind of look are you going for? What kind of pants are these? Slacks? Jeans? Kahki? Cargo? Details please.
AIR-PILOT
Don Juan
Gucci
Puma's
Diesel
Thats in my closet.
Mack 86
Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
al77
Master Don Juan
Unless it is a sure thing in the lateast fashion, I would never even think about bowling shoes...
I'd suggest to go look for shoes that are semi-dress shoes. I.e. you like the style, they are dressy, but not exactly fancy dress shoes, or traditional dress shoes.
I like slip on shoes in general and I ususaly for them in different store. Dont expect to buy shoes in the very first store you go to.
Visite at least 3-4 stores, see what they have and what you like.
And, some people would say only black shoes would go with black pants. I personally dont like anything black... but still wonder, would some dark borwn shoe go with black pants - how acceptable is it?
Alpine
Master Don Juan
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Master Don Juan
go on GQ or askmen website...lots of fashion ideas there..