Mens Style, the thinking mans guide to dress, by Russell Smith is a book obviously about style. I was just breezing through the book when something caught my attention. The section on shoes. The book says that shoes are vital to your success with women. I have women to vouch for this. Shoes are one of the first things that a woman looks at. Shoes tell a person how much money you make. What social group you're in, ect. These are the most expensive things in your outfit. But its worth it. I recently bought a pair of Nike's that have a neon logo on them. I'm saving these for night outs. And also bought a new pair of skate shoes for daytime. So get rid of those awful vans that smell like grandma. Get some nice ones. If you're older then i am and are in the business world or not buy a nice pair of leather soled shoes. I'm told they will last a life time.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Shoes Matter
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