Mens Style, the thinking mans guide to dress, by Russell Smith is a book obviously about style. I was just breezing through the book when something caught my attention. The section on shoes. The book says that shoes are vital to your success with women. I have women to vouch for this. Shoes are one of the first things that a woman looks at. Shoes tell a person how much money you make. What social group you're in, ect. These are the most expensive things in your outfit. But its worth it. I recently bought a pair of Nike's that have a neon logo on them. I'm saving these for night outs. And also bought a new pair of skate shoes for daytime. So get rid of those awful vans that smell like grandma. Get some nice ones. If you're older then i am and are in the business world or not buy a nice pair of leather soled shoes. I'm told they will last a life time.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Shoes Matter
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