"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Shoe opinions

KnockoutJM

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2007
Messages
168
Reaction score
1
Location
Rhode Island

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
I liked the first two.
 

sunlight

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 6, 2007
Messages
17
Reaction score
0
They all seems to be very teenager(i saw your age) and toylike.

Black Shoes - for youngsters
White w/ gray - some style, only yes
gray w/ white - kid-toy
Gray - if for running who cares what they look, it's best to fit and try running shoes on shops to make sure the are comfortable.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

PectoralisMajor

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 18, 2007
Messages
328
Reaction score
4
no, yes, no, no.

PS - you wont be attracting the HOT babes by going out in skater shoes - just so you know !
 

Flabbergasped?

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 14, 2005
Messages
539
Reaction score
12
All pretty bad. For good, stylish choices:

www.jdsports.co.uk/product.aspx?id=7615
Onitsuka Tiger, comes in all colors, kind of a skinny shoe, so if you have fat feet, might be uncomfortable.

http://www.haggul.com/Product.asp?PID=1254112
Puma Romas

Don't get skater shoes, they make you look like a kid, but if you want stylish shoes, you can't really go wrong with high-end Adidas, Asics, or Pumas. Nike too, but those shoes are generally bigger.
 

Indigo

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 7, 2007
Messages
43
Reaction score
0
Location
USA
In my opinion they all are bad... I'd never wear any of those.

I have these shoes:

http://www.zappos.com/n/p/p/7291644/c/86347.html

I also have some Aldo's that I wanted to show you, casual, but more formal than sneakers but they aren't on their website anymore, but they are similar to these:

http://www.aldoshoes.com/eng/storeS...uctDetails.cfm&itemID=64748384&&var=d&ckey=US

Try and find stuff that no one else wears... Diesel, Puma, Aldo, etc... if not you're just like everyone else.

At my college most people wear those skater shoes, and in my opinion they look awful. I've gotten compliments from my shoes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

KnockoutJM

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2007
Messages
168
Reaction score
1
Location
Rhode Island
I like the diesel and pumas, but i cant find any in a size 14, so i end up looking at other random shoes.. I like to have shoes that look clean but might have something unique about them..
 

i am me

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2004
Messages
885
Reaction score
1
not really feelin any of those...maybe cus im a lil superficial and never heard of lakai or globe. dont like the daddy yankee shoes cus i think wearing rapper's shoes is kinda tacky (and i love rap). the adidas shoes arent very stylish...

get some more classic or preppy lookin shoes (whichever fits ur stlye...maybe both)
 

B4IFURU18?

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 26, 2007
Messages
195
Reaction score
1
Nah, too middle school looking for me.

Indigo, I like the Diesels, but there are MUCH better models than those. I have pair of Diesels and love em.

The Aldos are hideous...velcro, wtf...
 

DJVladdy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2007
Messages
1,037
Reaction score
17
not first and last

but 2 and 3 are cool (orignial)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

i am me

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2004
Messages
885
Reaction score
1
/\i kinda like the first ones if u can find clothes that fit wit em
 
Top