"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KnockoutJM

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I liked the first two.
 

sunlight

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They all seems to be very teenager(i saw your age) and toylike.

Black Shoes - for youngsters
White w/ gray - some style, only yes
gray w/ white - kid-toy
Gray - if for running who cares what they look, it's best to fit and try running shoes on shops to make sure the are comfortable.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PectoralisMajor

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no, yes, no, no.

PS - you wont be attracting the HOT babes by going out in skater shoes - just so you know !
 

Flabbergasped?

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All pretty bad. For good, stylish choices:

www.jdsports.co.uk/product.aspx?id=7615
Onitsuka Tiger, comes in all colors, kind of a skinny shoe, so if you have fat feet, might be uncomfortable.

http://www.haggul.com/Product.asp?PID=1254112
Puma Romas

Don't get skater shoes, they make you look like a kid, but if you want stylish shoes, you can't really go wrong with high-end Adidas, Asics, or Pumas. Nike too, but those shoes are generally bigger.
 

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In my opinion they all are bad... I'd never wear any of those.

I have these shoes:

http://www.zappos.com/n/p/p/7291644/c/86347.html

I also have some Aldo's that I wanted to show you, casual, but more formal than sneakers but they aren't on their website anymore, but they are similar to these:

http://www.aldoshoes.com/eng/storeS...uctDetails.cfm&itemID=64748384&&var=d&ckey=US

Try and find stuff that no one else wears... Diesel, Puma, Aldo, etc... if not you're just like everyone else.

At my college most people wear those skater shoes, and in my opinion they look awful. I've gotten compliments from my shoes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KnockoutJM

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I like the diesel and pumas, but i cant find any in a size 14, so i end up looking at other random shoes.. I like to have shoes that look clean but might have something unique about them..
 

i am me

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not really feelin any of those...maybe cus im a lil superficial and never heard of lakai or globe. dont like the daddy yankee shoes cus i think wearing rapper's shoes is kinda tacky (and i love rap). the adidas shoes arent very stylish...

get some more classic or preppy lookin shoes (whichever fits ur stlye...maybe both)
 

B4IFURU18?

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Nah, too middle school looking for me.

Indigo, I like the Diesels, but there are MUCH better models than those. I have pair of Diesels and love em.

The Aldos are hideous...velcro, wtf...
 

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not first and last

but 2 and 3 are cool (orignial)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i am me

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/\i kinda like the first ones if u can find clothes that fit wit em
 
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