Sometimes I do or say something to a woman that is a so potentially shocking it could be a deal breaking gamble. I call it the "Shock and Awe" (S&A) - because like its military counterpart, it's all about dominance, power and a display of unnerving confidence. The only difference is that it isn't a continual assault, moreover you throw the cluster bomb and wait....
An example of this? You are just getting to know a girl it's all very nicey-nicey and then you just chuck in a blatant sexual reference or comment. Nothing pervy or uber creepy, but something unexpected and escalating.
I've found the best medium for this is by text or email. Why? Because it's something that can be re-read, pondered and digested.
Now S&A can go one of two ways:
The former is great, it shows she's hot to trot and things happen at a speedy rate; but the latter is where some guys think they've got a problem. In truth both are actually OK for you if you know how to play the S&A. You see, in the latter case she'll start by trying to punish you because she wants to give the impression she isn't a slvt and / or feels you've over-stepped the mark. She thinks "How dare he say such a thing! What downright cheek, I won't be talked to like that, I'm no slvt!", type stuff. So, what is the typical response for a women to do here? She stops communications.
What normally happens with most AFCs is that after a few minutes / hours / days or so they'll capitulate, send another text / email apologising hoping to revoke the damage they've believed they've done. The trouble is this only makes their situation worse! Why?
1. It reinforces her belief that you've been out of order - You've agreed as such by apologising.
2. It displays low order value and status (beta, gamma, delta.... omega) - those who aren't confident in sticking by their actions and decisions.
3. It removes all mystery about you, you show your cards in the poker game.
4. The dynamic shifts in her favour as you failed the test, so she now feels she holds the power in the game (that's really bad for you!).
5. It encourages her to punish you more, which means less contact! Which in the worst case scenario means GAME OVER.
Now the correct response from you instead is to sit and wait for your S&A to do its work... invade her mind, break her into submission so that she contacts you. From my experience, if you wait long enough without giving in, she'll nearly always restart communications - (unless you REALLY creeped her out by overdoing it). Anyway, this waiting game can be a few hours, days, (some higher order women even a week or two), but they've almost ALWAYS contacted back.
Now what do you think happens during that period of waiting?
1. She'll re-read and digest the text, desensitizing herself to the initial shock
2. She'll be confused as to how you had the balls to send it
3. She'll wonder if she's being too sensitive and prudish
4. She wonder where the attention you've given her has gone.
5. She'll think that perhaps you couldn't give a sh1t if she replies or not and you probably have other options who don't mind this sort of thing.
6. She'll start to think she might lose you..
Here's what I've found normally happens, after the wait she'll contact you like nothing's happened or she'll flirt back more naughtily than before - Bingo, the "awe" part of S&A is now doing its work. She's more in awe of your confidence than before and you've "trained her" that this is the sort of thing you may do. Trust me when I say her attraction for you will be more than before S&A. And you can rinse and repeat the S&A, escalating without fear of being ex-communicated : She's dealt with it once and will again.
One more important thing, never apologise for S&A after the fact, it undoes all of the hard work. Sometimes she'll come re-contact, carry on as normal, but bring it up later, trying to give you some grief over it. What do I do? Turn the tables, throw the "God you're a bit prudish aren't you?!!" and laugh like it's no big deal, it soon shows her you have the balls to back up your actions, and you are the one in control - which is exactly the Alpha trait that a woman wants.
SHOCK AND AWE!!!!!!!!!!
An example of this? You are just getting to know a girl it's all very nicey-nicey and then you just chuck in a blatant sexual reference or comment. Nothing pervy or uber creepy, but something unexpected and escalating.
I've found the best medium for this is by text or email. Why? Because it's something that can be re-read, pondered and digested.
Now S&A can go one of two ways:
- She'll ramp up the sauciness of her responses too and things progress rapidly to good times :rockon:
- You'll get stony silence, but that's where the test begins and the true game starts.
The former is great, it shows she's hot to trot and things happen at a speedy rate; but the latter is where some guys think they've got a problem. In truth both are actually OK for you if you know how to play the S&A. You see, in the latter case she'll start by trying to punish you because she wants to give the impression she isn't a slvt and / or feels you've over-stepped the mark. She thinks "How dare he say such a thing! What downright cheek, I won't be talked to like that, I'm no slvt!", type stuff. So, what is the typical response for a women to do here? She stops communications.
What normally happens with most AFCs is that after a few minutes / hours / days or so they'll capitulate, send another text / email apologising hoping to revoke the damage they've believed they've done. The trouble is this only makes their situation worse! Why?
1. It reinforces her belief that you've been out of order - You've agreed as such by apologising.
2. It displays low order value and status (beta, gamma, delta.... omega) - those who aren't confident in sticking by their actions and decisions.
3. It removes all mystery about you, you show your cards in the poker game.
4. The dynamic shifts in her favour as you failed the test, so she now feels she holds the power in the game (that's really bad for you!).
5. It encourages her to punish you more, which means less contact! Which in the worst case scenario means GAME OVER.
Now the correct response from you instead is to sit and wait for your S&A to do its work... invade her mind, break her into submission so that she contacts you. From my experience, if you wait long enough without giving in, she'll nearly always restart communications - (unless you REALLY creeped her out by overdoing it). Anyway, this waiting game can be a few hours, days, (some higher order women even a week or two), but they've almost ALWAYS contacted back.
Now what do you think happens during that period of waiting?
1. She'll re-read and digest the text, desensitizing herself to the initial shock
2. She'll be confused as to how you had the balls to send it
3. She'll wonder if she's being too sensitive and prudish
4. She wonder where the attention you've given her has gone.
5. She'll think that perhaps you couldn't give a sh1t if she replies or not and you probably have other options who don't mind this sort of thing.
6. She'll start to think she might lose you..
Here's what I've found normally happens, after the wait she'll contact you like nothing's happened or she'll flirt back more naughtily than before - Bingo, the "awe" part of S&A is now doing its work. She's more in awe of your confidence than before and you've "trained her" that this is the sort of thing you may do. Trust me when I say her attraction for you will be more than before S&A. And you can rinse and repeat the S&A, escalating without fear of being ex-communicated : She's dealt with it once and will again.
One more important thing, never apologise for S&A after the fact, it undoes all of the hard work. Sometimes she'll come re-contact, carry on as normal, but bring it up later, trying to give you some grief over it. What do I do? Turn the tables, throw the "God you're a bit prudish aren't you?!!" and laugh like it's no big deal, it soon shows her you have the balls to back up your actions, and you are the one in control - which is exactly the Alpha trait that a woman wants.
SHOCK AND AWE!!!!!!!!!!
