"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crazy Asian

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Is it just me, or do shirts not fit you well?
T shirts just hang over my chest and dangle from there, like a fvcking skirt.

plus, they get really loose after a couple of washes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ostepop

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get more buffed or better fitting tskirts. I got a few nice stretch ones. I dont wear tskirts much anyway in public.
 

skirtChaser

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long sleeved, solid colored, button up dress shirts, stripes or squares ok.
wear tshirts underneath only......unless youre gay
 

5uave

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Since your 15...

Shirts are probably not gonna fit you right. I think you are at the perfect age to start working out to get a better build on your skinny self (assuming your skinny) . I was when I was 15. Try on everything b4 you go buy them. My parents use to buy them and they looked terrible. A small size here mite be a large at another store. Buy shirts that fits by trying them on.

They have stretch fit shirt more often now. get those!

And if your gonna wear a button down dress shirt, buy a "fitted" shirt. and wear a tank top underneath. buy a chain necklace. show it off.

anymore advice?
 

bambam

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working out is the gayest thing you can do unless you are doing it for a reason other than how you look. just buy a higher quality of shirt. i am far from the buff gay look, but my shirts fit me because i get good ones. as a matter of fact, if you are "gay buff" you will find it even harder to get a decent shirt. remember that americans are fat a$$es. the stores that are popular with middle america cater to the obese and the try to look urban crowd.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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