"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Crazy Asian

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Is it just me, or do shirts not fit you well?
T shirts just hang over my chest and dangle from there, like a fvcking skirt.

plus, they get really loose after a couple of washes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ostepop

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get more buffed or better fitting tskirts. I got a few nice stretch ones. I dont wear tskirts much anyway in public.
 

skirtChaser

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long sleeved, solid colored, button up dress shirts, stripes or squares ok.
wear tshirts underneath only......unless youre gay
 

5uave

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Since your 15...

Shirts are probably not gonna fit you right. I think you are at the perfect age to start working out to get a better build on your skinny self (assuming your skinny) . I was when I was 15. Try on everything b4 you go buy them. My parents use to buy them and they looked terrible. A small size here mite be a large at another store. Buy shirts that fits by trying them on.

They have stretch fit shirt more often now. get those!

And if your gonna wear a button down dress shirt, buy a "fitted" shirt. and wear a tank top underneath. buy a chain necklace. show it off.

anymore advice?
 

bambam

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working out is the gayest thing you can do unless you are doing it for a reason other than how you look. just buy a higher quality of shirt. i am far from the buff gay look, but my shirts fit me because i get good ones. as a matter of fact, if you are "gay buff" you will find it even harder to get a decent shirt. remember that americans are fat a$$es. the stores that are popular with middle america cater to the obese and the try to look urban crowd.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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