You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Good job making us think it was an 11 yr old boy. Thatd make you a punk.Originally posted by Evil-Rom
Remember this is Australia --R/J--, we have a different "name" for juniors, seniors, sophmore etc.
Year 12 is the last year of high school, therefore year 11 is the year before that.
jiza101, read the bible before posting something like this ever again. I mean, if she's hangin with some year 11 "****" then obviously
Hahaha....dirtyhe's got something you don't.
lol way to sound like a jackassOriginally posted by jiza101
Hes got a fugly head, thats what
If she wants fugly dudes then fine.. She isnt good enough for me, obviously i read her wrong. Her loss.
Originally posted by Jester
no man not everything works.
jesus christ some of you ****ers are stupid.
alright first off dude, get off your pedastal.
you arent **** man if you act and think like that.
the guy is just a better DJ than you, and hes even younger, so stop dissing him when he kicked your ass.
Now if its her boyfriend, why would you even try? A girl that would leave her boyfriend for another guy isnt worth **** anyway. If you just want to **** then thats a different story, but then why put in extra effort for a girl with a boyfriend when there are plenty of other chicks who are as hot and hotter without boyfriends?
Stop being an ******* and learn some manners.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Th3 b1ble. As in Th3 l1ink at th3 top of th3 page where it says "New Here? We suggest checking out The DJ Bible before posting.Originally posted by CuT3L1LB1onD3
hey guys here in the u.s., the grades are Freshman (9), Sophmore (10), Junior (11), Senior (12) just to let you know; but I bet you already knew that... you guys talk about random things... like the bible, how are you giving this guy advice by telling him to read the bible?? help me out here....
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.