Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Good job making us think it was an 11 yr old boy. Thatd make you a punk.Originally posted by Evil-Rom
Remember this is Australia --R/J--, we have a different "name" for juniors, seniors, sophmore etc.
Year 12 is the last year of high school, therefore year 11 is the year before that.
jiza101, read the bible before posting something like this ever again. I mean, if she's hangin with some year 11 "****" then obviously
Hahaha....dirtyhe's got something you don't.
lol way to sound like a jackassOriginally posted by jiza101
Hes got a fugly head, thats what
If she wants fugly dudes then fine.. She isnt good enough for me, obviously i read her wrong. Her loss.
Originally posted by Jester
no man not everything works.
jesus christ some of you ****ers are stupid.
alright first off dude, get off your pedastal.
you arent **** man if you act and think like that.
the guy is just a better DJ than you, and hes even younger, so stop dissing him when he kicked your ass.
Now if its her boyfriend, why would you even try? A girl that would leave her boyfriend for another guy isnt worth **** anyway. If you just want to **** then thats a different story, but then why put in extra effort for a girl with a boyfriend when there are plenty of other chicks who are as hot and hotter without boyfriends?
Stop being an ******* and learn some manners.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Th3 b1ble. As in Th3 l1ink at th3 top of th3 page where it says "New Here? We suggest checking out The DJ Bible before posting.Originally posted by CuT3L1LB1onD3
hey guys here in the u.s., the grades are Freshman (9), Sophmore (10), Junior (11), Senior (12) just to let you know; but I bet you already knew that... you guys talk about random things... like the bible, how are you giving this guy advice by telling him to read the bible?? help me out here....
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.