Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

She's waiting for an invite

silverwex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 27, 2003
Messages
1,306
Reaction score
5
Age
44
Location
Eire
Right,

Kinda know this girl to see. Met her out last weekend. Hooked up with her.

Am now texting her and she thinks im an arrogant prick but she seems to love it (bit too ****y and not enough funny but hey its workin!).

Just been texting ehr there now and she was asking why i didnt come down to the pub last night and keep her company. I said i was busy etc... but i MIGHT be open to an invite some other time.

She said she might be open too if she was asked. I replied saying 'Are you asking me out?!!' She said she never said that but she'll wait to get an invite.

I stopped texting her at this point.

I think shes interested but what should i do now. Ask her straight out or play around a little more?

Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Skel

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 5, 2003
Messages
1,721
Reaction score
10
Well I dont personally know here so its always hard to say. But I would just simply ask her and forget all the games. She has already made it clear that she wants you to ask her right? If so then no more head games.
 

DankNuggs

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 14, 2003
Messages
586
Reaction score
0
Ask her out....why keep playing games? Giving her the runaround will make her lose interest if you don't follow it up by some date or get togehter...
 
Top