"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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She's waiting for an invite

silverwex

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Right,

Kinda know this girl to see. Met her out last weekend. Hooked up with her.

Am now texting her and she thinks im an arrogant prick but she seems to love it (bit too ****y and not enough funny but hey its workin!).

Just been texting ehr there now and she was asking why i didnt come down to the pub last night and keep her company. I said i was busy etc... but i MIGHT be open to an invite some other time.

She said she might be open too if she was asked. I replied saying 'Are you asking me out?!!' She said she never said that but she'll wait to get an invite.

I stopped texting her at this point.

I think shes interested but what should i do now. Ask her straight out or play around a little more?

Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Skel

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Well I dont personally know here so its always hard to say. But I would just simply ask her and forget all the games. She has already made it clear that she wants you to ask her right? If so then no more head games.
 

DankNuggs

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Ask her out....why keep playing games? Giving her the runaround will make her lose interest if you don't follow it up by some date or get togehter...
 
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