mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I don't . I just don't find it useful being an extra helpful friend for someone I want sex with. Shell use you for relationship attention and get dyck from a man who friendzone her .
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She's using you for attention - do you?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
People oftentimes feel being taken advantage off, and to me it's because they allow it to happen or because they aren't skilful in staggering "being helpful".
For instance, if you were to bring me coffee every morning, I'll naturally would expect coffee from you and it must meet the taste that I'm accustomed to. Sometimes I might even gently reprimand you for being late or buying the wrong type.
But if you were to buy me coffee sparingly, on certain occasions, I'd most certainly appreciate it and would thank you graciously.
Does this make sense?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The freeloaders and moochers teach us this lesson.
I wouldn't do extra favors just cause someone is visually attractive .
If we do a few friend things for each other, great.
I wouldn't do it to sniff around and hang around . I'd only do it cause she's generous to me.