mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I don't . I just don't find it useful being an extra helpful friend for someone I want sex with. Shell use you for relationship attention and get dyck from a man who friendzone her .
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She's using you for attention - do you?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
People oftentimes feel being taken advantage off, and to me it's because they allow it to happen or because they aren't skilful in staggering "being helpful".
For instance, if you were to bring me coffee every morning, I'll naturally would expect coffee from you and it must meet the taste that I'm accustomed to. Sometimes I might even gently reprimand you for being late or buying the wrong type.
But if you were to buy me coffee sparingly, on certain occasions, I'd most certainly appreciate it and would thank you graciously.
Does this make sense?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The freeloaders and moochers teach us this lesson.
I wouldn't do extra favors just cause someone is visually attractive .
If we do a few friend things for each other, great.
I wouldn't do it to sniff around and hang around . I'd only do it cause she's generous to me.