"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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shes too horny!

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hey guys,

i've recently been texting/talking online with a girl (whom i recently met over the net) who has come to my country from germany. She has few friends here and is mega-horny. She lives a good 4 hours away so i'm yet to meet her and is only a possibility at hte moment.

she's damn hot and all she talks about is sex! Sure this may sound like a dream for most guys, but its starting to get annoying and i want her to act less like a slut, and would prefer if we could actually hold a normal convo. whenever i try, she seems to just turn things back on the topic of sex.

any feedback is much appreciated!

Cheers,
mario

ps. i had no idea what to search!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PectoralisMajor

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She's probably a virgin - 4 hours away is a long way.

only worth it if she visits you in my opnion.
 

Luveno

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She's a fake profile on a dating site. Someone is yanking your chain and wants to get a good laugh out of you driving 4 hours away for sex.

Actually... it's very funny. Please do it and then tell us you got scammed.
 

kingwilliam

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4 hours is just too far for puzzy, there have to be girls in your town. If she wants to vist you then go for it, otherwise just forget it. What do you have to gain?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Evzone

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My honest opinion, it's probably either a confused and depraved 50 year old man who got some random pics of a hot girl off of Google Images or Myspace or something, or the other option is that someone is trying to sucker you into one of those e-mail scam things.

And I'm new to the board, not the game
 

Someone Much cooler

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like I said lol a gun and a rubber. Ever watch the movie biker boyz, where the hot girl brings the guy to a hotel. only there does he find out that there are a bunch of guys waiting there to rob him. That **** is real and it happens all the time. did i mention a gun under your pillow, i wouldn't go to her crib.
 

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hmm.. :p there is a hint of bull**** artist in the air, but theres a lot of genuinity about her as well.
i wasn't intending on driving four hours just for her, although i may be heading down her ways to meet up with some other friends later this year

anyone have any ideas/tactics on how to tell if she is bull****ting me or not?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mikeyb

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I was in the same situation as you are now a few months back, and as it turns out the girl was real and she was just a heckuva slut. But then again, she lived 15 minutes away...
 
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It's probaly a mexican grandad or something. Don't go or you're gonna get mow-lested!!!!!!!!!! What kinda chump are you anyways? Driveing 4 hours for sex? If shes so horny make her come to you dummy. Some people are so stupid. Wake up man.
 

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Some dogs bark are worse then their bites.

I often found women that don't talk about sex and actually act like the "sweet and innocent type" to be not so sweet and innocent when the lights go out;) and the opposite for girls who are overtly expressive in being sexual and turn out to be a dud.

I say you are wasting your time with someone that may not be a girl, lives 4 hours a way and that is probably yanking your chain.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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moto

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ask for a picture of her eating an orange....or her holding a sign with something you want it to say
 

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In my experience, girls who are openly sexual in their talk and behavior are LOUSY in the sack. Its almost like they are compensating for something they don't have.

This chick does not sound like she's worth the 4-hour drive, but it's your call mate.
 

marioyo

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cheers for the tips guys

i will be heading her ways anyway in about 1.5 months time, in order to support my bro racing. still unsure weather i wanna meet up with her or not..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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