"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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shes too horny!

marioyo

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hey guys,

i've recently been texting/talking online with a girl (whom i recently met over the net) who has come to my country from germany. She has few friends here and is mega-horny. She lives a good 4 hours away so i'm yet to meet her and is only a possibility at hte moment.

she's damn hot and all she talks about is sex! Sure this may sound like a dream for most guys, but its starting to get annoying and i want her to act less like a slut, and would prefer if we could actually hold a normal convo. whenever i try, she seems to just turn things back on the topic of sex.

any feedback is much appreciated!

Cheers,
mario

ps. i had no idea what to search!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PectoralisMajor

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She's probably a virgin - 4 hours away is a long way.

only worth it if she visits you in my opnion.
 

Luveno

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She's a fake profile on a dating site. Someone is yanking your chain and wants to get a good laugh out of you driving 4 hours away for sex.

Actually... it's very funny. Please do it and then tell us you got scammed.
 

kingwilliam

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4 hours is just too far for puzzy, there have to be girls in your town. If she wants to vist you then go for it, otherwise just forget it. What do you have to gain?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Evzone

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My honest opinion, it's probably either a confused and depraved 50 year old man who got some random pics of a hot girl off of Google Images or Myspace or something, or the other option is that someone is trying to sucker you into one of those e-mail scam things.

And I'm new to the board, not the game
 

Someone Much cooler

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like I said lol a gun and a rubber. Ever watch the movie biker boyz, where the hot girl brings the guy to a hotel. only there does he find out that there are a bunch of guys waiting there to rob him. That **** is real and it happens all the time. did i mention a gun under your pillow, i wouldn't go to her crib.
 

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hmm.. :p there is a hint of bull**** artist in the air, but theres a lot of genuinity about her as well.
i wasn't intending on driving four hours just for her, although i may be heading down her ways to meet up with some other friends later this year

anyone have any ideas/tactics on how to tell if she is bull****ting me or not?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mikeyb

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I was in the same situation as you are now a few months back, and as it turns out the girl was real and she was just a heckuva slut. But then again, she lived 15 minutes away...
 
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It's probaly a mexican grandad or something. Don't go or you're gonna get mow-lested!!!!!!!!!! What kinda chump are you anyways? Driveing 4 hours for sex? If shes so horny make her come to you dummy. Some people are so stupid. Wake up man.
 

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Some dogs bark are worse then their bites.

I often found women that don't talk about sex and actually act like the "sweet and innocent type" to be not so sweet and innocent when the lights go out;) and the opposite for girls who are overtly expressive in being sexual and turn out to be a dud.

I say you are wasting your time with someone that may not be a girl, lives 4 hours a way and that is probably yanking your chain.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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moto

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ask for a picture of her eating an orange....or her holding a sign with something you want it to say
 

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In my experience, girls who are openly sexual in their talk and behavior are LOUSY in the sack. Its almost like they are compensating for something they don't have.

This chick does not sound like she's worth the 4-hour drive, but it's your call mate.
 

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cheers for the tips guys

i will be heading her ways anyway in about 1.5 months time, in order to support my bro racing. still unsure weather i wanna meet up with her or not..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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