Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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She's responsive, but not as I would want (facebook)

therussian

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this is my first post.

i don't have trouble getting girls. for the most part anyway. recently i have started utilizing facebook to get ass and its been working way better than i have ever thought. however, this frontier is still a bit new to me since you can't really show yourself in person and make the impression exactly how you want.
so i saw this girl's profile and decided to add her. she accepted my friend request. after a few days i sent her a message a simple hello, how you doing type of thing. she responds with just hi, i'm good... wtf. nothing else to keep the convo going. so i made another comment about where she was from. she just responds with simple replies and nothing else to keep the convo alive. after 2 messages to her i'm a bit lost. now, normally i wouldn't really stress **** like this, but this girl is really cute and i'd love to hit it. should i drop this or try another method?

thanks for advice.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Scars

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Have you actually gotten any "ass" from FB yet? Just wondering.

I deleted mine quite awhile ago, as most woman flake, and the woman who you do hook happen to be nutcases or attention wh0res anyway.

But back when I did utilize it, something I did learn was that you have to be extremely creative.

You must understand, that woman get "Hello, how are you doing?" "So where are you from?" "Oh, how old are you?" messages EVERY SINGLE DAY. By the butt load.

You have to come up with something extremely ****y/funny and interesting for them to hook on, and even then, it's not a guarantee.

I've noticed it's best to message girls and get a rapport with them before adding them. It saves you the embarrassment of deleting them/getting deleted later once you find out her personality is boring or she's just a b!tch.

I don't want to give you any canned lines, because I'm against that, but generally I will scope out a profile and just use the information that's available to come up with something interesting to say. Don't be like the other 60 guys who messaged her that guy with "Hello, how are you?". Nah what I mean? That **** only works in the real world, namely because most guys are afraid to approach a girl face to face. Precisely why I deleted my facebook in the first place. It's a sea full of chumps, but that's just my personal opinion. You got to remember, that winning her over facebook/text is only half the battle. You still got to meet her and run game on her face to face, so if you have any anxiety about being around attractive woman, you might want to start working on that first.

-Scars
 

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yeah i got ass from facebook. in the past month i pulled 6 girls. usually the convos led to me getting the number right off the bat. you're right about being crazy though. some of them are a little too hot wired, but hey i got what i came for and i'm out.
i'm not scared being around good looking women. i'm a fit guy myself and dont want to brag, but i'm rather good looking myself. i have never had a girl lower than 7 and i'm not exaggerating. the girls i pulled off facebook so far have a ton of pics, in many of which they're just getting down at clubs or parties just going wild. so usually when i send em a message i can say something relating to some pic or something along those lines to get them going. this chick has a whole 5 pics and its just her......doing nothing crazy or wild. there's a pic of her with a dog. i suppose i could say "hey thats a crazy looking dog yo!" (i'm kidding of course).
 

PapiChulo

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I dont understand why you ask this question at first place, to be honest. Whatever lands you a number, dear Sir.
 

Johnnyventana

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Maybe she's just a bore! Or, she already has her eye on someone.

So, this must be generational, but I would never accept or ask to be a FB "friend" if I didn't know them. But this is what you guys are doing? I know chicks in their 20s who also would never accept a request from a random. So I guess if you are getting results, it is likely from the AWs.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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