"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She's responsive, but not as I would want (facebook)

therussian

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this is my first post.

i don't have trouble getting girls. for the most part anyway. recently i have started utilizing facebook to get ass and its been working way better than i have ever thought. however, this frontier is still a bit new to me since you can't really show yourself in person and make the impression exactly how you want.
so i saw this girl's profile and decided to add her. she accepted my friend request. after a few days i sent her a message a simple hello, how you doing type of thing. she responds with just hi, i'm good... wtf. nothing else to keep the convo going. so i made another comment about where she was from. she just responds with simple replies and nothing else to keep the convo alive. after 2 messages to her i'm a bit lost. now, normally i wouldn't really stress **** like this, but this girl is really cute and i'd love to hit it. should i drop this or try another method?

thanks for advice.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Scars

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Have you actually gotten any "ass" from FB yet? Just wondering.

I deleted mine quite awhile ago, as most woman flake, and the woman who you do hook happen to be nutcases or attention wh0res anyway.

But back when I did utilize it, something I did learn was that you have to be extremely creative.

You must understand, that woman get "Hello, how are you doing?" "So where are you from?" "Oh, how old are you?" messages EVERY SINGLE DAY. By the butt load.

You have to come up with something extremely ****y/funny and interesting for them to hook on, and even then, it's not a guarantee.

I've noticed it's best to message girls and get a rapport with them before adding them. It saves you the embarrassment of deleting them/getting deleted later once you find out her personality is boring or she's just a b!tch.

I don't want to give you any canned lines, because I'm against that, but generally I will scope out a profile and just use the information that's available to come up with something interesting to say. Don't be like the other 60 guys who messaged her that guy with "Hello, how are you?". Nah what I mean? That **** only works in the real world, namely because most guys are afraid to approach a girl face to face. Precisely why I deleted my facebook in the first place. It's a sea full of chumps, but that's just my personal opinion. You got to remember, that winning her over facebook/text is only half the battle. You still got to meet her and run game on her face to face, so if you have any anxiety about being around attractive woman, you might want to start working on that first.

-Scars
 

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yeah i got ass from facebook. in the past month i pulled 6 girls. usually the convos led to me getting the number right off the bat. you're right about being crazy though. some of them are a little too hot wired, but hey i got what i came for and i'm out.
i'm not scared being around good looking women. i'm a fit guy myself and dont want to brag, but i'm rather good looking myself. i have never had a girl lower than 7 and i'm not exaggerating. the girls i pulled off facebook so far have a ton of pics, in many of which they're just getting down at clubs or parties just going wild. so usually when i send em a message i can say something relating to some pic or something along those lines to get them going. this chick has a whole 5 pics and its just her......doing nothing crazy or wild. there's a pic of her with a dog. i suppose i could say "hey thats a crazy looking dog yo!" (i'm kidding of course).
 

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I dont understand why you ask this question at first place, to be honest. Whatever lands you a number, dear Sir.
 

Johnnyventana

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Maybe she's just a bore! Or, she already has her eye on someone.

So, this must be generational, but I would never accept or ask to be a FB "friend" if I didn't know them. But this is what you guys are doing? I know chicks in their 20s who also would never accept a request from a random. So I guess if you are getting results, it is likely from the AWs.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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