"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's responsive, but not as I would want (facebook)

therussian

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this is my first post.

i don't have trouble getting girls. for the most part anyway. recently i have started utilizing facebook to get ass and its been working way better than i have ever thought. however, this frontier is still a bit new to me since you can't really show yourself in person and make the impression exactly how you want.
so i saw this girl's profile and decided to add her. she accepted my friend request. after a few days i sent her a message a simple hello, how you doing type of thing. she responds with just hi, i'm good... wtf. nothing else to keep the convo going. so i made another comment about where she was from. she just responds with simple replies and nothing else to keep the convo alive. after 2 messages to her i'm a bit lost. now, normally i wouldn't really stress **** like this, but this girl is really cute and i'd love to hit it. should i drop this or try another method?

thanks for advice.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Have you actually gotten any "ass" from FB yet? Just wondering.

I deleted mine quite awhile ago, as most woman flake, and the woman who you do hook happen to be nutcases or attention wh0res anyway.

But back when I did utilize it, something I did learn was that you have to be extremely creative.

You must understand, that woman get "Hello, how are you doing?" "So where are you from?" "Oh, how old are you?" messages EVERY SINGLE DAY. By the butt load.

You have to come up with something extremely ****y/funny and interesting for them to hook on, and even then, it's not a guarantee.

I've noticed it's best to message girls and get a rapport with them before adding them. It saves you the embarrassment of deleting them/getting deleted later once you find out her personality is boring or she's just a b!tch.

I don't want to give you any canned lines, because I'm against that, but generally I will scope out a profile and just use the information that's available to come up with something interesting to say. Don't be like the other 60 guys who messaged her that guy with "Hello, how are you?". Nah what I mean? That **** only works in the real world, namely because most guys are afraid to approach a girl face to face. Precisely why I deleted my facebook in the first place. It's a sea full of chumps, but that's just my personal opinion. You got to remember, that winning her over facebook/text is only half the battle. You still got to meet her and run game on her face to face, so if you have any anxiety about being around attractive woman, you might want to start working on that first.

-Scars
 

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yeah i got ass from facebook. in the past month i pulled 6 girls. usually the convos led to me getting the number right off the bat. you're right about being crazy though. some of them are a little too hot wired, but hey i got what i came for and i'm out.
i'm not scared being around good looking women. i'm a fit guy myself and dont want to brag, but i'm rather good looking myself. i have never had a girl lower than 7 and i'm not exaggerating. the girls i pulled off facebook so far have a ton of pics, in many of which they're just getting down at clubs or parties just going wild. so usually when i send em a message i can say something relating to some pic or something along those lines to get them going. this chick has a whole 5 pics and its just her......doing nothing crazy or wild. there's a pic of her with a dog. i suppose i could say "hey thats a crazy looking dog yo!" (i'm kidding of course).
 

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I dont understand why you ask this question at first place, to be honest. Whatever lands you a number, dear Sir.
 

Johnnyventana

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Maybe she's just a bore! Or, she already has her eye on someone.

So, this must be generational, but I would never accept or ask to be a FB "friend" if I didn't know them. But this is what you guys are doing? I know chicks in their 20s who also would never accept a request from a random. So I guess if you are getting results, it is likely from the AWs.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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