"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She's My Girlfriend But Not Officially - How should I ask her out?

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So there's this girl that I've been doing stuff with for almost two months now but I've never officially asked her out. We hold hands and everything and everyone just assumes that I'm her boyfriend. We go out every weekend and I know she likes me and all, but she's not actually my girlfriend. I just want to know how I should ask her out so she'll actually be my girlfiend. It just seems kind of stupid to me to ask "will you go out with me?" when we're already basically going out you know? Any thoughts on how I should go about it? I know she's not going to say no, but I don't know how to bring the topic up.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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get her a little gift, and tell her how much you enjoy your time together, and how much you like her, and then laugh about how you two aren't "official", and ask her if she wants to make it official!
 
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When she calls you her bf, that's when it's offical. No asking requried.

But...if you're desperate, get a buddy she doesnt' know that well to ask her if that's (you are..) your boyfriend, and get him to put in a few good words.
 
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