"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She's My Girlfriend But Not Officially - How should I ask her out?

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So there's this girl that I've been doing stuff with for almost two months now but I've never officially asked her out. We hold hands and everything and everyone just assumes that I'm her boyfriend. We go out every weekend and I know she likes me and all, but she's not actually my girlfriend. I just want to know how I should ask her out so she'll actually be my girlfiend. It just seems kind of stupid to me to ask "will you go out with me?" when we're already basically going out you know? Any thoughts on how I should go about it? I know she's not going to say no, but I don't know how to bring the topic up.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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get her a little gift, and tell her how much you enjoy your time together, and how much you like her, and then laugh about how you two aren't "official", and ask her if she wants to make it official!
 
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When she calls you her bf, that's when it's offical. No asking requried.

But...if you're desperate, get a buddy she doesnt' know that well to ask her if that's (you are..) your boyfriend, and get him to put in a few good words.
 
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