"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She's My Girlfriend But Not Officially - How should I ask her out?

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eggnawgkid

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So there's this girl that I've been doing stuff with for almost two months now but I've never officially asked her out. We hold hands and everything and everyone just assumes that I'm her boyfriend. We go out every weekend and I know she likes me and all, but she's not actually my girlfriend. I just want to know how I should ask her out so she'll actually be my girlfiend. It just seems kind of stupid to me to ask "will you go out with me?" when we're already basically going out you know? Any thoughts on how I should go about it? I know she's not going to say no, but I don't know how to bring the topic up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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get her a little gift, and tell her how much you enjoy your time together, and how much you like her, and then laugh about how you two aren't "official", and ask her if she wants to make it official!
 
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When she calls you her bf, that's when it's offical. No asking requried.

But...if you're desperate, get a buddy she doesnt' know that well to ask her if that's (you are..) your boyfriend, and get him to put in a few good words.
 
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