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She's My Girlfriend But Not Officially - How should I ask her out?

eggnawgkid

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So there's this girl that I've been doing stuff with for almost two months now but I've never officially asked her out. We hold hands and everything and everyone just assumes that I'm her boyfriend. We go out every weekend and I know she likes me and all, but she's not actually my girlfriend. I just want to know how I should ask her out so she'll actually be my girlfiend. It just seems kind of stupid to me to ask "will you go out with me?" when we're already basically going out you know? Any thoughts on how I should go about it? I know she's not going to say no, but I don't know how to bring the topic up.
 

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get her a little gift, and tell her how much you enjoy your time together, and how much you like her, and then laugh about how you two aren't "official", and ask her if she wants to make it official!
 

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When she calls you her bf, that's when it's offical. No asking requried.

But...if you're desperate, get a buddy she doesnt' know that well to ask her if that's (you are..) your boyfriend, and get him to put in a few good words.
 
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