"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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she's my age but has a kid

Killer_Demo

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whats up guys, im talkin to an HB7 but the thing is she has a kid. she calls me all the time and invites me over the house even tho her parents are home. Is it worth a try or does this have trouble written all over it? thanks for your time
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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penkitten

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there are a ton of posts about single mothers and alot of guys here just dont want to bother with it and arent ready for responsibilites that come with dating a single mom.
going over to watch a movie with them isnt going to tie you into the family tree, however it can lead to a relationship and so on.
i was a young single mom and no one turned me down because of my child or because i had more than one child.
 

Johnnie5

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she has a kid , are you prepare to become a father figure ?

if not then be straight up with her that you arent looking for a relationship , if you want to hang out and have some fun then cool

only you can guage her interest level and what she wants, maybe she just wants to hang out and have some fun
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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backbreaker

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do you want to **** her, or do yo uwant to DATE her?

Big diffrence.

You dont' have to be a daddy to get your **** sucked. As long as she knows the deal and agrees with it.
 

salsipuedes

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I have a diferent view, if shes cool and shes going to be honest with you and makes you happy, whats wrong with her having a kid? i take a great woman with a kid anyday over a single woman whos going to be trouble anyday.
 
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