"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alright, so this girl that i've been working on for the past couple weeks told her friend that she is losing interest in me. How do i keep her interested? She is awful quiet, and i have no idea how to get her to talk, but i really like this girl. She has EVERYTHING i could want. Any idea's?

Oh, earlier this week, i tried to get her away from her friends at lunch, and all of them were saying "Go with him!" but she didn't wanna go.... She's really stressed, so i think i acted too early. Just wondering if that info would help
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You are coming off to strong. Separate yourself from this chick for a while and see if she comes back running to you, you are making her feel too awkward!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Oh my lord.

You want a chick that has no interest in you? I'd rather have syphilis thanks.
 
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Quit acting like a 'crazyman', BOY!

Patience young child...Patience! Learn it, Live it, LOVE it!!!
 
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No, it's not that shes not interested in me. She had pretty big crush on me, but she is LOSING the interest
 
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Depends on how long you have been together for.
I would wait 2-3 days, and just wait until she makes the attempt to talk to you. If she does not make an attempt to talk to you after a week, you are in a VERY bad situation.. because she does not even want to make an attempt to talk to you, and if she doesn't, she's not worth your time.

Just give her some space is all I can say, or before you all this, try to make your "outings" more interesting. Treat her like you just met her and make things interesting again.
 
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She's losing interest because YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING.

You failed to make a move on her, now she's moved on because she doesn't think you're interested.

Next time, kiss her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, i did make a move on her. At homecoming, i danced with her(once. I asked her to homecoming, and she only dances with me once...) and she didn't want to dance again, because it was too awkward...
 
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Thats not a move. Thats dancing.

Did you go for the kiss?
 
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no, i didn't go in for the kiss... she would(used to) always talk about how she had a crush on me whenever we talked on aim. But in person, you would have never been able to tell, because she tries to avoid me in person... Wtf. She acts like a totally different person online, than in person... I still havn't really talked to her in like 5 days. Should i just talk to her?
 
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She is nervous around you in person. Give her a taste of her own medicine.....copy her actions and see how she reacts. If nothing happens.....fuhgetaboutit, and move on...... If you cannot make this girl comfortable around you......nobody will. Tell her she is missin' out, and just fade away....
 
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wtf, i'm getting hella tired of this. She keeps on talking about me to her friend (who is my friends sister) and she keeps saying stuff like that... Should i just talk to her or wait for her to talk to me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she has religious hangups/conditioning
 
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OK, i am not saying you have done this, its just a possible thing you could of done for her to lose interest in you, when you found out she liked you, you thought you're job was done so you stopped acting DJ around her, I've done it loadss of times :mad: lol, what i would do is, show her the guy she first had a crush on, talk to her first and then build up the kino to get her more comfortable in your prescence,


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