"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alright, so this girl that i've been working on for the past couple weeks told her friend that she is losing interest in me. How do i keep her interested? She is awful quiet, and i have no idea how to get her to talk, but i really like this girl. She has EVERYTHING i could want. Any idea's?

Oh, earlier this week, i tried to get her away from her friends at lunch, and all of them were saying "Go with him!" but she didn't wanna go.... She's really stressed, so i think i acted too early. Just wondering if that info would help
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You are coming off to strong. Separate yourself from this chick for a while and see if she comes back running to you, you are making her feel too awkward!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Oh my lord.

You want a chick that has no interest in you? I'd rather have syphilis thanks.
 
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Quit acting like a 'crazyman', BOY!

Patience young child...Patience! Learn it, Live it, LOVE it!!!
 
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No, it's not that shes not interested in me. She had pretty big crush on me, but she is LOSING the interest
 
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Depends on how long you have been together for.
I would wait 2-3 days, and just wait until she makes the attempt to talk to you. If she does not make an attempt to talk to you after a week, you are in a VERY bad situation.. because she does not even want to make an attempt to talk to you, and if she doesn't, she's not worth your time.

Just give her some space is all I can say, or before you all this, try to make your "outings" more interesting. Treat her like you just met her and make things interesting again.
 
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She's losing interest because YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING.

You failed to make a move on her, now she's moved on because she doesn't think you're interested.

Next time, kiss her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, i did make a move on her. At homecoming, i danced with her(once. I asked her to homecoming, and she only dances with me once...) and she didn't want to dance again, because it was too awkward...
 
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Thats not a move. Thats dancing.

Did you go for the kiss?
 
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no, i didn't go in for the kiss... she would(used to) always talk about how she had a crush on me whenever we talked on aim. But in person, you would have never been able to tell, because she tries to avoid me in person... Wtf. She acts like a totally different person online, than in person... I still havn't really talked to her in like 5 days. Should i just talk to her?
 
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She is nervous around you in person. Give her a taste of her own medicine.....copy her actions and see how she reacts. If nothing happens.....fuhgetaboutit, and move on...... If you cannot make this girl comfortable around you......nobody will. Tell her she is missin' out, and just fade away....
 
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wtf, i'm getting hella tired of this. She keeps on talking about me to her friend (who is my friends sister) and she keeps saying stuff like that... Should i just talk to her or wait for her to talk to me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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she has religious hangups/conditioning
 
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OK, i am not saying you have done this, its just a possible thing you could of done for her to lose interest in you, when you found out she liked you, you thought you're job was done so you stopped acting DJ around her, I've done it loadss of times :mad: lol, what i would do is, show her the guy she first had a crush on, talk to her first and then build up the kino to get her more comfortable in your prescence,


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