shes just sent me this DM....

[Atom Smasher]

"hey can you do this evening"

You: “Do what?”

And then verbally bat her around a little, just a hint on the playful side, like a cat batting around mouse. Make her work for it. If she gets mad, then “See ya”.
If she recognizes what you’re doing and submits to it and takes it well and she pledges to come through this time, then you decide whether she’s worth another chance or not.

Sometimes it’s effective to convey a stern message couched in a bit of playfulness, but not everyone can pull that off. Regardless of the method, she should be made to know that she’s on thin ice, that your patience is exhausted, and if you decide to see her it is definitely on a probationary basis. Don’t say that directly, but convey it through implication.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

If she had real interest, she wouldn't cancel in the first place. If a chick cancels it means you were not that high on her priority list. Sure you can work to try to raise her interest, but is it really worth the effort?

Agree 100%

Noticed this phenomenon a lot since lock down London 1. girl gave IOIS, approach invitation, choosing signals. I approached. she asked for my digits lulz but said it's pandemic when I push to get her out. #next

She can hit me up but hotter girls are turning 18, 19, 20, 21 EVERYDAY!

Fellas need to be absolute mercenaries with time. Comply or bye.


Fellas here as DJs or in general want to play house. Cool. Acquire best yrs or charge up your troll cannon. No dice.


Another brick in the way. The future is cat farm spinsters.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

tuesday she cancels well in advance....i reply non chalant. then go NC

wednesday she counter offers "hey you free this evening?"

i reply "cant do it im afraid but can do Saturday"

she replies perfect sounds good.

then friday afternoon she cancels again, well in advance. I tell her this doesnt work for me...

and now shes messaged again "are you free this evening"

Block delete.

Send her nudes of a hotter younger girl.

Trolling as hobby ftw!

 

[derby1]

Block delete.

Send her nudes of a hotter younger girl.

Trolling as hobby ftw!

funny bro, but i see her regularly, and my job means i cant troll people, id love to though

 

[EyeBRollin]

tuesday she cancels well in advance....i reply non chalant. then go NC

wednesday she counter offers "hey you free this evening?"

i reply "cant do it im afraid but can do Saturday"

she replies perfect sounds good.

then friday afternoon she cancels again, well in advance. I tell her this doesnt work for me...

and now shes messaged again "are you free this evening"

thats not a date guy... did you tell her where and what time to meet?

 

[derby1]

thats not a date guy... did you tell her where and what time to meet?

i told her the plans fully with times, Im just giving you a run down of her behaviour

 

[EyeBRollin]

i told her the plans fully with times, Im just giving you a run down of her behaviour

This girl is a nutbag. What I would do since she keeps asking for same day is play dumb.

“Actually I am free tonight at 6 for making dinner together. Come by and bring <something>. See you in a bit?”

 

[bat soup]

So this woman flakes differently than others in my world....

shes polite courteous and does it well in advance with plausible deniability...

first DM 4 days ago : "hey Bit wary about going round a mans house"( i already gratified her the night before wasnt doing it again so I cancelled )

then when i go silent she ramps up interest and re-schedules (fair enough)

then 2nd cancel DM "hey friends invited me round hers, but i thought id ask you first"

has she read a book somewhere how to put accomplished men off her?

This is a girl that is NOT interested in ever having sex with you.

A girl that has high interest is not going to come out with any of this BS.

 

[bat soup]

I agree ofcourse and know shes got orbiters, know shes an A.W

the reason i asked was because.

1) I cant believe she would be stupid enough to lead an 18 stone man on, she sees 3 times a week( my company buys stuff from her work) this isnt an OLD mess around.

2) she cancels in plenty of time very politely with plausible reasons(shes very good at this)

3) she then offers counter offers within 24 hours.....

when she cancelled the 2nd time with her BS & hoovering.....

Me:"cool, but this isnt working for me, no doubt see you soon"

Her: "Wow .......just wow, wasnt thinking id be told that"

1. most women are plenty stupid enough
2. bottom line is she cancels and kochblocks you, it doesn't matter how polite she is
3. she enjoys jerking you around and using you as a backup plan

If she wanted to have sex, she'd be excited to see you instead of giving you BS excuses.