"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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she's ignoring me

sbgm

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Hellu!
This girl I am hitting on, I know she likes me, that I can be a potential boyfriend. We have good eyecontact, and last weekend, we talked in about 2 hours on MSN, about level 2 disclosure-stuff (we talked about being home alone and such... sacry movies, that we were scared by them) Yesterday in school, she sat by a table with some of her friends, and she said "Oh, sbgm, he's so funny, he says funny things to me (impossible to translate from swedish to enlgish :p)" She didn't thought that I was listening, but I heard what she said and said to her "I heard my name, why am I so funny do you think?" Then after class, I tried to talk to her, but she was totally ignoring me! And she has ignored me on MSN now too... Why is that do you think? And what is the best thing to do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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musclyjerk

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Do you really need telling what to do if a girl ignores you or acts off with you?

Forget her
Ignore her
Block/delete her
Don't give her anymore attention
No more looking at her
No more making her feel good

Cut it all off. If she comes back begging, that's your call - personally I'd forget her for good. I have a low tolerance for this kind of ignorant crap especially from a girl.

The Muscly Jerk
 

PleasureKing

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save yourself some trouble and find more girls. dont be surprised if she does or doesnt come back to you though.
 

dj ben2

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GaryUranga said:
ignore her back, ***flirt with other girls***
is about the best advice so far all the other guys saying NEXT her are obviously have missed some golden oppurtunities during their life. fact is ALL girls play games ... just play with it
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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pvf94

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Just ignore her the same way she is ignoring you.....Id flirt with other woman while SHE is around. If she is interested at all you will catch her looking your way or she might even approach you.

You said you busted her chop's by asking her why you are funny....and that you were not supposed to hear her say that in the first place. Maybe she is a bit shy/embarrassed now, and you need to warm up to her again.

Either way, the way to find out = ignore. The above posters have said the same thing.
 

ryannath

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When someone ignores you, the worst thing you can do is give them attention or act like it bothers you that they are ignoring you. Act like it's not a big deal. When you see her in person, ask her if she has any HOT single friends that want a bf. If that doesn't make her want you more, then nothing will. Then move on. Don't keep talking to her on msn if she keeps ignoring you on there. That's just sad.
 
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