"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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she's ignoring me

sbgm

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Hellu!
This girl I am hitting on, I know she likes me, that I can be a potential boyfriend. We have good eyecontact, and last weekend, we talked in about 2 hours on MSN, about level 2 disclosure-stuff (we talked about being home alone and such... sacry movies, that we were scared by them) Yesterday in school, she sat by a table with some of her friends, and she said "Oh, sbgm, he's so funny, he says funny things to me (impossible to translate from swedish to enlgish :p)" She didn't thought that I was listening, but I heard what she said and said to her "I heard my name, why am I so funny do you think?" Then after class, I tried to talk to her, but she was totally ignoring me! And she has ignored me on MSN now too... Why is that do you think? And what is the best thing to do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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musclyjerk

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Do you really need telling what to do if a girl ignores you or acts off with you?

Forget her
Ignore her
Block/delete her
Don't give her anymore attention
No more looking at her
No more making her feel good

Cut it all off. If she comes back begging, that's your call - personally I'd forget her for good. I have a low tolerance for this kind of ignorant crap especially from a girl.

The Muscly Jerk
 

PleasureKing

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save yourself some trouble and find more girls. dont be surprised if she does or doesnt come back to you though.
 

dj ben2

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GaryUranga said:
ignore her back, ***flirt with other girls***
is about the best advice so far all the other guys saying NEXT her are obviously have missed some golden oppurtunities during their life. fact is ALL girls play games ... just play with it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pvf94

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Just ignore her the same way she is ignoring you.....Id flirt with other woman while SHE is around. If she is interested at all you will catch her looking your way or she might even approach you.

You said you busted her chop's by asking her why you are funny....and that you were not supposed to hear her say that in the first place. Maybe she is a bit shy/embarrassed now, and you need to warm up to her again.

Either way, the way to find out = ignore. The above posters have said the same thing.
 

ryannath

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When someone ignores you, the worst thing you can do is give them attention or act like it bothers you that they are ignoring you. Act like it's not a big deal. When you see her in person, ask her if she has any HOT single friends that want a bf. If that doesn't make her want you more, then nothing will. Then move on. Don't keep talking to her on msn if she keeps ignoring you on there. That's just sad.
 
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