She's had stalkers before and is worried about giving out her number so I.....

[TL79]

Built a rapport with a new girl at work, she has a boyfriend but isn't really into him from what she says (I know, judge by actions not by words, lol) She says she isn't into committment and doesn't want to be serious with anyone right now and I told her I'm the same way, just want to have some fun, etc. She told me her history of being stalked before and it takes her awhile to really trust someone, I am switching jobs and no longer will be working with her so I sent her an email and said something like 'Hey, you're pretty cool,lets keep in touch blah, blah, blah' I gave her my email and cell, she wrote back that she'll save my cell but she's hesistant on giving out her number because of what happened to her before, so I said no big deal and I understood why, she said she's glad I didn't take it personal because most people do, but that if something changed in her status she would give me a ring sometime.

I'm not really looking for her to call but I kind of gave her the impression that I could take it or leave it. I didn't want to come off as desperate but maybe I shouldn't have given her my email and cell and waited for her to give her info to me..............

 

[Scion]

She won't call. Hate to tell you but she appears to just be blowing you off. But like she said don't take it personally, she's just not interested.

 

[starplayer]

I agree with Scion. It does just sound like a lame excuse.

Remember, as a rule of thumb:
If a woman has high interest you won't be able to keep her off your d!ck. If a woman isn't interested then she'll have a million and one excuses to get rid of you.

 

[TL79]

Thanks for the advice fellas, I was kind of thinking that also but just wanted some more opinions. I'm going to keep that rule of thumb in mind starplayer because it's definitely true.

 

[sodbuster]

EVERY woman has had a "stalker" even if they didn't. They dream they are SO attractive that they had one.