"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shes got a Kid!

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Ok got some girls number lastnight pretty damn good looking and hit her up today and im like what are you doing? her "Just cleaning my car and playing soccer with my daughter"


DAMN! Ill still hit it but how should I go about being the sensitive guy?

I was in one relationship with a stripper that had a kid but all she wanted to do was ****. Wouldnt mind the same here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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I wouldn't get involved with a woman who has a kid unless she was really really exceptional and worth it. Usually its too much drama, especially once she gets to the point where she feels she can tell you anything then you'll hear the stories of how her single motherhood came to be and all the lingering bullsh1t from her past.

It'd be a good situation for an AFC maybe but for a DJ you don't wanna risk getting attached and suckered into a lot of crap here.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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If all you want to do is hit it then tell her whatever you think she wants to hear "I like kids" "I want to have kids" typical BS.

Personally I would never be in a relationship with a single mom because theres no way in hell I'll ever raise another mans kid.
 

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Been there done that. Enjoy the pu$$y.

But a word of caution: Most single mothers are desperate to find a man to take care of their little "mistakes". Of course if you told this to any single mothers they would scoff and shake their heads and tell you that you're crazy. Bullshyt!

Because they know they're damaged goods, they will try to impress you in ways that women without kids never would.

Now what does this have to do with you, you say? You just want to "hit it and quit it". Yes my friend, you SAY that. But believe me, she will be the BEST girl you've ever been with. She'll treat you like a friggin' king. Maybe buy you stuff. You might start saying to yourself "Hey, this isn't so bad after all. Maybe I'll just bang her a couple more months...."

Boom! That's the trap dude. After they have you(preferably by getting pregnant from you). You will see their true self emerge, and it's usually not pretty.

When I was younger I went through hell with a woman that had 2 kids from different men. She would bend over backwards for me...for the first little while that is. This girl would buy EVERYTHING. Let me do things to her in the bedroom that would make Ron Jeremy blush. Luckily I didn't get her pregnant, but believe me, she was trying to.

Just a little word of caution. Dating a single mother almost ruined my life. Be careful.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tristan22

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I stay clear of females with kids!

My motto is:

"If she has one kid, she'll have another if the oppurtunity arises."
 

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Originally posted by JH6
eject, eject, eject.
eject in her, then leave :) lol make sure ya use a rubber and one that you supplied not from her stash
 

ikkenai

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Originally posted by Eye
Ok got some girls number lastnight pretty damn good looking and hit her up today and im like what are you doing? her "Just cleaning my car and playing soccer with my daughter"


DAMN! Ill still hit it but how should I go about being the sensitive guy?

I was in one relationship with a stripper that had a kid but all she wanted to do was ****. Wouldnt mind the same here.
You've got to be kidding. Stay the hell away from broads with kids, you don't need damaged goods!

What's with this 'sensitive guy' crap?
 

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Stay away - You already know her stance on abortion . . .
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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avrilishot

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its up to you if u can handle her and her kid go for it.
 
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