"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shes got a Kid!

Eye

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Ok got some girls number lastnight pretty damn good looking and hit her up today and im like what are you doing? her "Just cleaning my car and playing soccer with my daughter"


DAMN! Ill still hit it but how should I go about being the sensitive guy?

I was in one relationship with a stripper that had a kid but all she wanted to do was ****. Wouldnt mind the same here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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I wouldn't get involved with a woman who has a kid unless she was really really exceptional and worth it. Usually its too much drama, especially once she gets to the point where she feels she can tell you anything then you'll hear the stories of how her single motherhood came to be and all the lingering bullsh1t from her past.

It'd be a good situation for an AFC maybe but for a DJ you don't wanna risk getting attached and suckered into a lot of crap here.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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If all you want to do is hit it then tell her whatever you think she wants to hear "I like kids" "I want to have kids" typical BS.

Personally I would never be in a relationship with a single mom because theres no way in hell I'll ever raise another mans kid.
 

italostud

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Been there done that. Enjoy the pu$$y.

But a word of caution: Most single mothers are desperate to find a man to take care of their little "mistakes". Of course if you told this to any single mothers they would scoff and shake their heads and tell you that you're crazy. Bullshyt!

Because they know they're damaged goods, they will try to impress you in ways that women without kids never would.

Now what does this have to do with you, you say? You just want to "hit it and quit it". Yes my friend, you SAY that. But believe me, she will be the BEST girl you've ever been with. She'll treat you like a friggin' king. Maybe buy you stuff. You might start saying to yourself "Hey, this isn't so bad after all. Maybe I'll just bang her a couple more months...."

Boom! That's the trap dude. After they have you(preferably by getting pregnant from you). You will see their true self emerge, and it's usually not pretty.

When I was younger I went through hell with a woman that had 2 kids from different men. She would bend over backwards for me...for the first little while that is. This girl would buy EVERYTHING. Let me do things to her in the bedroom that would make Ron Jeremy blush. Luckily I didn't get her pregnant, but believe me, she was trying to.

Just a little word of caution. Dating a single mother almost ruined my life. Be careful.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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tristan22

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I stay clear of females with kids!

My motto is:

"If she has one kid, she'll have another if the oppurtunity arises."
 

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Originally posted by JH6
eject, eject, eject.
eject in her, then leave :) lol make sure ya use a rubber and one that you supplied not from her stash
 

ikkenai

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Originally posted by Eye
Ok got some girls number lastnight pretty damn good looking and hit her up today and im like what are you doing? her "Just cleaning my car and playing soccer with my daughter"


DAMN! Ill still hit it but how should I go about being the sensitive guy?

I was in one relationship with a stripper that had a kid but all she wanted to do was ****. Wouldnt mind the same here.
You've got to be kidding. Stay the hell away from broads with kids, you don't need damaged goods!

What's with this 'sensitive guy' crap?
 

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Stay away - You already know her stance on abortion . . .
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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avrilishot

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its up to you if u can handle her and her kid go for it.
 
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