Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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She's getting fat....

JesusJones

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If I wanted a girlfriend I wanted one who had high interest in me and would be a caring giving person Plus be half decent looking...

Big call right? Left waiting on that for a while.....gave up looking for a "decent one", then kind of just stumbled on one...

Great girl, homely and caring was in shape when we met.....

Fast forward a few years later
...granted anyone can put on a few pounds.....however it's starting to show around her face. I'm embarrassed by it....

The excuse is she's working a lot

Seems to need a lot of sleep

I need less sleep and am in pristine condition.

How to confront? Gone off her sexually but a great girl
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

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She needs to have her thyroid checked...tired all the time and weight gain is a classic low thyroid symptom. It's also far more prevalent in women than in men.
 
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wifehunter

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When chicks think they can eat as much as they want...they usually have deeper issues than being fat.

In most cases, not all, fatness can be a red flag indicating that ugly entitlement demon.

Or, on the otherhand she could be depressed and using food to feel better. In this case, she may need encouragement, to NOT overstuff herself.
 
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