"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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shes Getting back to doing the old **** which made us break up b4

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Me and my girlfriend have broke up for about a week...after we made the break up i sent her an email and i told her what really bothers me about our relation and how everything in our relation is getting worse and told her if shes ready to stop those stuff its ok for me that we get back together...after 3 days she called me and was very romantic and wanted us back...i played my games then we got back together...then she immediately gets back to what she knows bothers me...which is
1-not answering my phone calls all day with the excuse that shes busy(she keeps making up stories).BTW in the first of everything when she was busy she used to do anything to call me and chat with me.
2-after not answering my phone calls and having her life all day she remembers me b4 sleeping and calls at late night(i feel like im a reserve or something like that)
3-we're used that she should always call or sms me to tell me where she is...she doesnt...although when we broke up i found her smsing me with that dunno y
4-she doesnt care about us seeing each other...always tries to escappe meeting me.
now i need 2 understand something...these are signs of no interest and no love....so why does she always want to get back after we break up??and how should i react to that ****???i really need help guys.we just got back 2gether from 3 days only BTW.THANKS
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Another man she does see, her interest isn't high for thee.

Play games she will, play games.
 
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1-if she sees another man y did she wanna get us back...we've been 3 days only
2-wat do u mean by play games she will

I need clear answers
 
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Much anger in this one, there is. Clear answers you seek, do you?

Call her too much you do, it is your attention she loves. *Sigh* young you must be.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Get a life - and then you will not be concerned with what she does or does not do....

Your a man not a little girl.

Why are you calling her all the time?
 
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She is sexing another man!!!! You are not loyal to her only, are you?? She is not loyal to you!!!!
 
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what's weird is your second issue.. because that's what i got going on right now however, i can call my girl (well she isn't MY girl) anytime and even if she's at a movie she'll step out and talk for a few minutes, and she'll always return my calls if she misses them, not to mention tell me all her plans if it may involve her not being able to call me at night.
 
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as you can see this dumb yoda guy only riddles you. a true sith lord will give you answers that are TRUTHFUL and DAMNING.

you must crush her at this phone game. ignore her completely and when she does call, continue ignoring her. always end the convo here and there 'let's hang out' but never offer specifics and hang up the phone.

she will one day become available and say yeah let's hang out - you setup time and a place to go. on this very day you ensure yourself that she pays for everything or most of everything and act aloof the whole time. YOU DO NOT SMILE. my style would be the fu cking beat her face in and stab her, but the legal system is against the sith, drop her off and act cold.

victory is assured my youngling...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have a similar problem to this. This girl I'm seeing lives In Canada, and I'm still here in the states. We see eachother quite often, but sometimes when I call her, she tells me to call her back because she's on another line with someone locally. Now isn't it rude to make someone who's spending money calling you long distance call you back for some dipshyt who's local?


Not trying to hijack your thread...just thought I'd throw this in.
 
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i hope you learned a valueable lesson.
no one ever changes, when you want them to.
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
i hope you learned a valueable lesson.
no one ever changes, when you want them to.
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Penkitten, quick question> I saw your link to your wedding, and it said you were married on 12/31/05? Seeing as it's only 6/13/05...did someone buy you a time machine as a wedding present?
 
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Originally posted by jprjrjr
Penkitten, quick question> I saw your link to your wedding, and it said you were married on 12/31/05? Seeing as it's only 6/13/05...did someone buy you a time machine as a wedding present?
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getting married on new years eve... not much longer til we can have cake!!!!!!!!!yay.
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
getting married on new years eve... not much longer til we can have cake!!!!!!!!!yay.
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That's really our main reason for getting married.

Oh yeah, and we love each other, blah blah blah. Now bring out the cake.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
That's really our main reason for getting married.

Oh yeah, and we love each other, blah blah blah. Now bring out the cake.
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I see......Vanilla marbled cake is my favorite...
 
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