"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shes Getting back to doing the old **** which made us break up b4

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Me and my girlfriend have broke up for about a week...after we made the break up i sent her an email and i told her what really bothers me about our relation and how everything in our relation is getting worse and told her if shes ready to stop those stuff its ok for me that we get back together...after 3 days she called me and was very romantic and wanted us back...i played my games then we got back together...then she immediately gets back to what she knows bothers me...which is
1-not answering my phone calls all day with the excuse that shes busy(she keeps making up stories).BTW in the first of everything when she was busy she used to do anything to call me and chat with me.
2-after not answering my phone calls and having her life all day she remembers me b4 sleeping and calls at late night(i feel like im a reserve or something like that)
3-we're used that she should always call or sms me to tell me where she is...she doesnt...although when we broke up i found her smsing me with that dunno y
4-she doesnt care about us seeing each other...always tries to escappe meeting me.
now i need 2 understand something...these are signs of no interest and no love....so why does she always want to get back after we break up??and how should i react to that ****???i really need help guys.we just got back 2gether from 3 days only BTW.THANKS
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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darth yoda

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Another man she does see, her interest isn't high for thee.

Play games she will, play games.
 

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1-if she sees another man y did she wanna get us back...we've been 3 days only
2-wat do u mean by play games she will

I need clear answers
 

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Much anger in this one, there is. Clear answers you seek, do you?

Call her too much you do, it is your attention she loves. *Sigh* young you must be.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NewMan

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Get a life - and then you will not be concerned with what she does or does not do....

Your a man not a little girl.

Why are you calling her all the time?
 
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She is sexing another man!!!! You are not loyal to her only, are you?? She is not loyal to you!!!!
 

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what's weird is your second issue.. because that's what i got going on right now however, i can call my girl (well she isn't MY girl) anytime and even if she's at a movie she'll step out and talk for a few minutes, and she'll always return my calls if she misses them, not to mention tell me all her plans if it may involve her not being able to call me at night.
 

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as you can see this dumb yoda guy only riddles you. a true sith lord will give you answers that are TRUTHFUL and DAMNING.

you must crush her at this phone game. ignore her completely and when she does call, continue ignoring her. always end the convo here and there 'let's hang out' but never offer specifics and hang up the phone.

she will one day become available and say yeah let's hang out - you setup time and a place to go. on this very day you ensure yourself that she pays for everything or most of everything and act aloof the whole time. YOU DO NOT SMILE. my style would be the fu cking beat her face in and stab her, but the legal system is against the sith, drop her off and act cold.

victory is assured my youngling...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have a similar problem to this. This girl I'm seeing lives In Canada, and I'm still here in the states. We see eachother quite often, but sometimes when I call her, she tells me to call her back because she's on another line with someone locally. Now isn't it rude to make someone who's spending money calling you long distance call you back for some dipshyt who's local?


Not trying to hijack your thread...just thought I'd throw this in.
 

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i hope you learned a valueable lesson.
no one ever changes, when you want them to.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
i hope you learned a valueable lesson.
no one ever changes, when you want them to.
Penkitten, quick question> I saw your link to your wedding, and it said you were married on 12/31/05? Seeing as it's only 6/13/05...did someone buy you a time machine as a wedding present?
 

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
Penkitten, quick question> I saw your link to your wedding, and it said you were married on 12/31/05? Seeing as it's only 6/13/05...did someone buy you a time machine as a wedding present?
getting married on new years eve... not much longer til we can have cake!!!!!!!!!yay.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
getting married on new years eve... not much longer til we can have cake!!!!!!!!!yay.
That's really our main reason for getting married.

Oh yeah, and we love each other, blah blah blah. Now bring out the cake.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
That's really our main reason for getting married.

Oh yeah, and we love each other, blah blah blah. Now bring out the cake.

I see......Vanilla marbled cake is my favorite...
 
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